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Title: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HollowOfHaze on May 02, 2015, 07:11:51 AM
I myself have been keeping the fact minimal among my friends, considering I'm unsure of how they might react.


Anybody in a similar situation?


Anybody in a dissimilar situation?
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Cheza on May 02, 2015, 07:39:46 AM
Most of my friends know I have "some kind of weird hobby" but other than that I don't think the know more.



Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Teiko on May 02, 2015, 08:08:15 AM
Not one of my friends knows. I'm not sure if i will reveal in the future... I don't really care if my friends are cool with it or not. But it's relatives i'm more concerned about  :S

Ironically, i had a furry friend long before i was even active online, but i never revealed it to him, and he has suddenly vanished for many years.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: MrRazot on May 02, 2015, 08:42:27 AM
Not many people know.
It doesn't really matter anyway
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Midnight Madness on May 02, 2015, 11:29:04 AM
Pretty much everyone knows. Most of my friends are furries, and for those that aren't, they know as well. I never went out of my way and said "Hey you know I'm a furry :3" I don't keep it a secret, for sure, but I also don't go around bragging about it. I'm proud to be, don't get me wrong, but that's for me to feel and not rub in the face of everyone around me.

I just do as I do and answer honestly when asked. If someone has a problem with it, I let them go about their business and just leave. Luckily, I haven't had anyone flip their shit about it, but I know someone will in the future. Too bad for them I don't really care and I have a perfect motor assembly to help me vacate their vicinity, or in the case of an online incident, a handy little x.

My father knows and respects my interests, my Grandmother couldn't care less and loves me all the same, my siblings  all don't see a problem with it, and I still hold a good share of non-furry/non-brony friends (who shall not be named here) and none of them have anything against it.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Poli "Lissy" Drax on May 02, 2015, 11:36:37 AM
Most of them have known for years. A few I haven't told, but that isn't out of not wanting to, but more because they wouldn't care either way. They have no interest in the fandom, so why care?


I've actually turned one of my friends furry by accident, hilariously, so that's a thing. But yeah, I'm fairly open about what I like. Don't see any reason to have shame in liking dogs or cats that look human. And if anyone makes the whole sexualisation argument, I just idly point out that the internet sexualises anything. Doesn't mean I condone it, it's just a thing we're all aware of.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Angder on May 02, 2015, 12:07:07 PM
All my "True" friends know, and even my friend who turned out to be Anti-fur does not really care... o.O
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on May 02, 2015, 12:13:10 PM
Most of my friends know I have "some kind of weird hobby" but other than that I don't think the know more.
imo this makes it more suspicious, and if someone finds out, they'll assume being a furry is something to be ashamed of, and possibly that the stereotypes are true.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Cheza on May 02, 2015, 07:34:36 PM
imo this makes it more suspicious, and if someone finds out, they'll assume being a furry is something to be ashamed of, and possibly that the stereotypes are true.


I don't see how it makes anything suspicious. I haven't literally told them that "Ohai, I'm a furry, it's a weird thing", it's more like I don't hide it but I don't shout it out to everyone either. I have two traditional drawings of Cheza on a wall and all my fursuit heads are "out in the open", mostly because I don't really have anywhere else to keep them, so those who have visited me probably assume it's got something to do with a hobby or something. If people were to ask me "Are you a furry?" I'd ofc tell them, but otherwise I don't really see a reason to do so.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Hycanith on May 02, 2015, 08:07:50 PM
It's a hobby, so I treat it as one. I'm sure my friends have figured it out considering I have 6 shirts with fablefire's glorious artwork and a fox-tribal mtg deck. It's nothing I'm really trying to hide. Treating it as a dark secret just makes it seem like a bad thing.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on May 02, 2015, 08:59:56 PM
imo this makes it more suspicious, and if someone finds out, they'll assume being a furry is something to be ashamed of, and possibly that the stereotypes are true.
I'm a furry, it's a weird thing"

I meant that kind of thing, calling it "weird" means they might Google it. D:
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Teiko on May 02, 2015, 09:05:31 PM
This thread is making me wanna stop hiding but im still scared X3
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Caesar Longstride on May 03, 2015, 07:04:29 PM
Nobody knows my secret.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on May 03, 2015, 11:50:40 PM
Nobody knows my secret.
You make it sound like some kind of weird cult. XD
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Caesar Longstride on May 03, 2015, 11:54:22 PM
It is some kind of weird cult.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Angder on May 03, 2015, 11:56:21 PM
Spot the person who is not yet in the inner Furry circle... >:3 :P

Seriously, this deep in, we have deathrays, and genetic modification, and lots and lots of cats.


OT: Quite seriously, there is a sort of "valley of hidden" you want to be in, too hidden, and when the secret gets out people assume the worst, not hidden enough, and everyone knows, and those who don't know you well assume the worst due to the media.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Cheza on May 04, 2015, 08:37:45 AM
imo this makes it more suspicious, and if someone finds out, they'll assume being a furry is something to be ashamed of, and possibly that the stereotypes are true.
I'm a furry, it's a weird thing"

I meant that kind of thing, calling it "weird" means they might Google it. D:


But the thing is that I never call it "a weird thing", I only assume that's what people make of it from looking at my stuff without me really saying anything at all xP


Imo the whole fandom sounds so strange that no matter how you tell people about it or try to explain it they'll end up googling it anyway if they get curious enough.
At least that's what I do when people tell me about stuff that somehow end up catching my interest. That's kinda how I found out about the fandom xP
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Amethyst star on May 04, 2015, 11:38:26 PM
Some of them do some of them don't,sometimes they can just tell by what I draw.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Teanup on May 06, 2015, 07:25:16 AM
No-one shall ever know.

Except for AJ  ^_^
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Obey138 (Matthew "Fluffy") on May 06, 2015, 08:23:06 AM
My friends might know about it, because I'm in some furry related Steam groups on my main account, but I never told anyone about it directly as I'm scared of their possible reactions.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Teiko on May 06, 2015, 08:47:46 AM
There can be only ONE of us GRAPE...  >:(
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Poli "Lissy" Drax on May 06, 2015, 05:10:19 PM
I think the biggest thing about "coming out" as a furry is that it's really not necessary. Yes, you can be proud of it, but there really doesn't need to be a time where you tell anyone if you really don't want to. Don't feel pressured.


If you do want to tell someone, don't treat it like it's weird. Explain it simply, and say why you like it. True friends will understand and most family members might. Everyone likes different things, and that's okay too.


However, if someone thinks it's different in a bad way, seems uninterested, or just doesn't care, don't take it offensively. Not everyone will understand and not everyone will be as eager as you are. Just brush it off, remember that it's normal to be you, and don't worry about it.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dax Declan on May 06, 2015, 08:26:45 PM
The only friend that knows is  my girlfriend. Only other person is my brother.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Gone forever on May 06, 2015, 09:07:26 PM
Only one friend knows for a fact. Everyone else knows something, but isn't exactly sure what and nobody bothers to ask me and I don't go seeking attention.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Obey138 (Matthew "Fluffy") on May 09, 2015, 06:28:53 AM
Recently I explained to my family and friends found out that I'm a furry.
Family doesn't care, while friends keep asking me about the fandom, my fursona, why am I one and keeps hating me and saying I'm a weirdo, but I don't give a fu*k.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Sabren.the.tiger on May 09, 2015, 06:57:25 AM
The only person that knows I'm a furry is my boyfriend I met on furtag.. When it still existed that is.  But no way I could tell my judgemental friends!
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Taliaka Anichezachi on May 12, 2015, 10:05:38 AM
Yes some of my friends do especially those who are furry them selves... But when my non fur friends got to know that i am a Fur.. i got dumped almost eminently by almost everyone because they though i was crazy or something :(
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: L4BY_ on May 13, 2015, 08:11:45 AM
I think people already know I'm interested in furry since I always have two mini fox tails attached to the side of my bag or right side of my trousers with chains, and sometimes wear a Lapfox teeshirt. I also clearly show I'm a fur on Facebook, you just have to look at who I'm friends with or my interests.

But I've never announced it like "Hey everyone, I'm a furry", I like to let other people guess it. I think I'm gonna buy a paw necklace this summer and an extra tail for cosplaying (big tails I only wear on certain occasions).
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Teiko on May 13, 2015, 03:30:38 PM
Lapfox Trax!!!  :D
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Kipsy on May 14, 2015, 03:59:50 AM
Yes, but I wouldn't say they are my close friends. I have "school friends" whom have recently graduated and I don't believe I'll see them again. I have a hard time making close friends and keeping them.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: cutiebat on May 19, 2015, 08:00:41 PM
Nope! Only my boyfriend knows.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dax Declan on May 20, 2015, 02:35:52 AM
None of mine know but my final exam for my ICT class is making a website. And mines gonna be about furries.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HollowOfHaze on May 20, 2015, 02:37:51 AM
None of mine know but my final exam for my ICT class is making a website. And mines gonna be about furries.


Hope it goes well.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dax Declan on May 20, 2015, 02:41:24 AM
My friend randomly bet me a dollar to do it. So I said sure. If they get weirded out I can just play It off as a bet. Cuz it is.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Sabren.the.tiger on May 20, 2015, 04:28:19 PM
Haha that is the way to do it! Desive the mind by basically being honest XD
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dax Declan on May 20, 2015, 09:46:06 PM
Didn't work out. The second I thought about it I had a really bad panic attack (I know I'm dumb) and it lasted longer than I would have liked. And it kinda ruined my day.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HollowOfHaze on May 20, 2015, 10:11:24 PM
Didn't work out. The second I thought about it I had a really bad panic attack (I know I'm dumb) and it lasted longer than I would have liked. And it kinda ruined my day.

Do go forward with the idea then. At least, not until you are comfortable with doing so. You can change the site's topic still right?
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on May 20, 2015, 10:18:07 PM
My friend randomly bet me a dollar to do it. So I said sure. If they get weirded out I can just play It off as a bet. Cuz it is.

So you'd sacrifice their trust in normal furries actually existing just to make it look like you're not associated with us?



Back on topic, just the ones who it's relevant to, basically. It's not like it affects my everyday life. It does affect my interests though, so if we share them it's often involved.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dax Declan on May 20, 2015, 10:29:19 PM
My friend randomly bet me a dollar to do it. So I said sure. If they get weirded out I can just play It off as a bet. Cuz it is.

So you'd sacrifice their trust in normal furries actually existing just to make it look like you're not associated with us?



Back on topic, just the ones who it's relevant to, basically. It's not like it affects my everyday life. It does affect my interests though, so if we share them it's often involved.

No its because everyone in my school is a closed minded bigot. And I wouldn't be "sacrificing" their trust in furries. It would be a normal informative website. And my social anxiety prevents me from sticking up for myself in any way. If they think its weird there's nothing I can do. And why would that be making them think normal furries don't exist?
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: G-Root Liska on May 20, 2015, 10:43:28 PM
Yeah a couple of my friends do know. I flat out told them. Honestly none of them really care. If they did care I could careless if they did or didn't.

My fiance knows and is alright with it.

My mother also knows and she thought my fursona was really cute lol.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Caesium Iodide on May 21, 2015, 02:16:24 AM
Well, I think two or three of them know. Besides my mate, because he pulled me into the fandom by the paw. Anyway.
My one friend found out because we were trying to connect my Live account to her Xbox and I had emails from this forum and she was like "what's that?" And I'm like "well." And, yeah, she seemed okay with it after awhile.
I have a few family members who are furries now because of me. Yay! Idk. But yeah.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Sabren.the.tiger on May 24, 2015, 05:26:21 AM
I tried to rope my cousins husband into the fandome but his force was too strong  XD
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Jane on May 27, 2015, 01:24:20 AM
Nope, to be honest. Well technically one person and its the same person who introduced me to it lol
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Vikthefox on May 29, 2015, 06:24:15 PM
One does.  The other doesn't, but probably suspects it.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Tiger on May 31, 2015, 02:58:42 AM
Yep! They're fine with it, they joke around about it. My parents encourage me going to cons. My boyfriend is cool with it, too.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Crest Is Dead ((For Now)) on May 31, 2015, 07:55:45 AM
I haven't told anyone but one has found out. I won't tell anyone I think. Family or friends. Scared of what they'd think
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Goblin Cat 😸 on June 03, 2015, 01:15:46 AM
I don't advertise it, but I also don't hide it. All my friends that are good friends know it. I don't know. I don't exactly feel the need to hide it. It's more of a 'take it or leave it' sort of thing. **censor** 'em if they don't like it, I don't need that shallow bs in my life. I probably only feel this way, though, because as someone who is trans, people can't react to my being furry any worse than anyone has to my being trans.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Karric on June 05, 2015, 10:38:25 PM
im in a similar situation to hollowofhaze
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Crest Is Dead ((For Now)) on June 06, 2015, 09:48:39 AM
Update: friends know family still don't (well at least a few of my friends and I'm not hiding it)
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Starceptor on June 06, 2015, 10:00:45 AM
Two closer friends do, one a furry one a kinda furry kinda ehhhhh whatever. Fam doesnt know anything about furry stuff except brother who's weirded out by it so i wont tell him either.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Lazem_Cat on June 07, 2015, 06:38:15 PM
Non of my friends or family know they would probably just think of me as weird or something so i will not reveal it to them at least not now
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on June 08, 2015, 02:22:17 AM
0ne of my school friends showed me he is before I could tell him I am. XD
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Taliaka Anichezachi on June 10, 2015, 08:33:49 AM
All of my friends that i have now does, and yes i have lost a lot of friends on it but i don't care they are just not true friends if they hate that fact about me :3
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Karric on June 10, 2015, 08:34:53 AM
good for you :D
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on June 11, 2015, 02:51:19 AM
All of my friends that i have now does, and yes i have lost a lot of friends on it but i don't care they are just not true friends if they hate that fact about me :3
Yep, and it also means you lost the shallow pretend-friends. XP Someone who would stop liking you simply for one thing you enjoy doesn't actually care about who you are as a person and therefore isn't really a friend so much as an acquaintance.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Taliaka Anichezachi on June 11, 2015, 08:53:52 AM
All of my friends that i have now does, and yes i have lost a lot of friends on it but i don't care they are just not true friends if they hate that fact about me :3
Yep, and it also means you lost the shallow pretend-friends. XP Someone who would stop liking you simply for one thing you enjoy doesn't actually care about who you are as a person and therefore isn't really a friend so much as an acquaintance.

Yea you are right Billy :3 i am glad that my real friends are still here and to be honest the friends that i have now that is not a furries actually think the whole furry thing is kinda cool :)
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on June 11, 2015, 09:00:39 AM
All of my friends that i have now does, and yes i have lost a lot of friends on it but i don't care they are just not true friends if they hate that fact about me :3
Yep, and it also means you lost the shallow pretend-friends. XP Someone who would stop liking you simply for one thing you enjoy doesn't actually care about who you are as a person and therefore isn't really a friend so much as an acquaintance.

Yea you are right Billy :3 i am glad that my real friends are still here and to be honest the friends that i have now that is not a furries actually think the whole furry thing is kinda cool :)

So yeah, net success?
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Taliaka Anichezachi on June 11, 2015, 09:03:14 AM
All of my friends that i have now does, and yes i have lost a lot of friends on it but i don't care they are just not true friends if they hate that fact about me :3
Yep, and it also means you lost the shallow pretend-friends. XP Someone who would stop liking you simply for one thing you enjoy doesn't actually care about who you are as a person and therefore isn't really a friend so much as an acquaintance.

Yea you are right Billy :3 i am glad that my real friends are still here and to be honest the friends that i have now that is not a furries actually think the whole furry thing is kinda cool :)

So yeah, net success?


Yes indeed :P
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Kai on June 11, 2015, 09:30:09 AM
Before I met most of my friends now I only talked to one person, but yeah, he knew.
He always gave me crap for it but it was insincere and he's told me a few times he actually thinks it's pretty cool, just not his niche.
But of the 15 or so people I hang out with now, about 8-10 are furries.


...We still poke fun at each other for it.
Title: does anyone know you're a furry?
Post by: Wolxikin on July 09, 2015, 02:11:19 AM
I saw a topic on this earlier, but it hadn't been replied to in a long time, so I made a new one.

So does anyone know that you're a furry? Friends? Family? Relatives? No one knows that I'm a furry yet, then again I've only been one for less than a week ;-;
Title: Re: does anyone know you're a furry?
Post by: kalan on July 09, 2015, 03:27:42 AM
Everyone knows, i dont really try to hide it i talk about it all the time.
Title: Re: does anyone know you're a furry?
Post by: Dubaku on July 09, 2015, 07:06:20 AM
Ha! I keep that so hidden, I'm like Batman with that type of stuff. XD
Title: Re: does anyone know you're a furry?
Post by: on July 09, 2015, 07:08:49 AM
My brother does, a few of my friends do.
It's not like I run around the city in a fox costume screaming about Disney but that doesn't change the fact that a kangaroo fox is my desktop background.
Power level not hidden.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: anoni on July 09, 2015, 07:13:19 AM
If a topic already exists, reply to that topic, even if it is old. Exceptions apply if the original topic is locked, if the original topic is locked you can create a new one.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HollowOfHaze on July 09, 2015, 07:24:56 AM
Is there another topic covering the same subject as this one?
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: anoni on July 09, 2015, 10:40:47 AM
Is there another topic covering the same subject as this one?

Yeah, it was called "Does anyone know you're a furry", but I merged it.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Setcho on July 09, 2015, 12:19:53 PM
lets just say my friends arent the open minded type, XD
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Henri on July 09, 2015, 01:59:33 PM
No one knows it's just never really occurred to me to tell anyone , well I definitely have givin hints to me being a furry unintentionally; like when ever I'm on the Internet with freinds and I see a fursona or something of that description I get excited, so they might have figured it out or not. Besides just little mannerisms like that no one knows.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Drakeyboy on July 09, 2015, 05:20:29 PM
They know i like furries so it's kinda the same thing.  XD
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Udldu on July 13, 2015, 03:39:29 PM
Absolutely nobody outside of this forum knows, nor am I going to tell them that I'm a furry. I try to keep that hidden, since some friends that I know, especially online, have a problem with furries.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Teanup on July 23, 2015, 06:32:00 PM
Some of them. I'm going to start making it more open... soon.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Eagle God-Heart on July 23, 2015, 06:34:22 PM
about 99% of the people i know, know that im a fur.... surprisingly its been taken very well.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dr. Grismond on July 23, 2015, 09:02:27 PM
Not many people know, and if they do know I'm not one to talk about it unless it's brought up. I never have really told anyone directly, they just look in my sketchbook and figure it out. None of them really care about my furry interests anyway and that may be for the better.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Halei-Helai on July 30, 2015, 11:48:00 PM
Only a small handful of people know. One I told because I knew she probably would think it was cool, one I told after he had a negative conversation within earshot about furries who later apologized and asked me about it, and one is my partner so full disclosure there pretty much. She and I joke about it and it isn't really an issue. I am more or less nonchalant about it all when talking about it with other people. For me it isn't so much a lifestyle but is instead a creativity thing so I guess that is easier for most people to accept.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: ★Amethyst★ on July 31, 2015, 01:13:17 AM
I've been drawing anthro characters since fifth grade or so, and most people who looked in my sketchbook and saw them were usually just like "oh, that's interesting/neat/etc." I don't think furries were really well know where I grew up ^^'

But nowadays and starting college there will probably be more people who know about it. I don't really mind if others know unless they're really negative or only believe in stereotypes. For me also it's very much a creative activity, and a little bit of community as well.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Golden Lucario on July 31, 2015, 02:40:23 PM
One does, some others don't. either way. who cares it's my life :3
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dagmar1177 on August 01, 2015, 04:54:22 AM
I feel like I'll be the only who says this but anyone close to me eventually finds out (apologies if there is someone else who did say this). I be the first to admit I really really don't have a healthy attitude when it comes to being a furry I'm a closet fur I suppose it's how I am. When people do find out I'm not to happy about it and my next question is usually "who told you" or "how did you find out." I do view being a furry as a "dark secret" but that's mainly because it not just "oh I just like the artwork" it's "I love the artwork  ;) " But I recognized it as not just being about that. It's also about the great community thats very accepting which why I joined these forums to help become a part of that accepting community. That can be my outlet to try and have a healthier relationship with *ehem* "weird hobby." I know some might hate that I would say that it's weird but you gotta admit outside looking in it's really strange just like sports (seriously how the *bleep* does football work again XP ).

(Sorry if I'm not funny)
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Furrball on August 11, 2015, 06:47:10 PM
Wait... friends? Am I suppose to have those? >.>'


I really don't talk to anyone, other than on forums here and there. All the people I knew back in high school are gone, and the few friends I had after that have also moved on. And I have anxiety, so going out to meet new people isn't exactly my top priority.  :S


But I was hoping to maybe try to meet up with any other furries I could find around my town, so maybe I will have some friends soon, and they'll automatically know I'm a furry because we'll be at a furry meet.  :P
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: StealthSushi on August 11, 2015, 06:49:28 PM
I don't have local friends, but the vast majority of those I consider friends are furries.


So...yeah.


My mom knows, I had a chitchat with her about it.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dagmar1177 on August 12, 2015, 02:15:54 PM
My mom knows, I had a chitchat with her about it.

I remember explaining being a furry to my mother, Was awkward as hell. D:
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: tengu42 on August 13, 2015, 10:29:34 AM
All my friends know, and are cool with it. I'm fortunate to be surrounded by people who are relatively educated, open-minded, and mature, so I don't have to worry about being ridiculed by the people closest to me.
I don't think I've ever come out to my parents, but considering it took my dad 8 years to come to grips with the fact I have a boyfriend, I'm in no hurry to further complicate things. Besides, he's not a huge part of my life, and I barely speak to my mom, so there's really no reason to tell them.
My sister knows though, and occasionally tells me when she meets another furry in our hometown.
Never met any of them though.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Celestial_Dragon on August 13, 2015, 12:51:17 PM
They found out that i'm furry, well a few, and now the term yiff is used a lot.....if your underage don't google it, or if you must just don't let anyone see.... my friends are sometimes immature

one friend is fine though because he has a cousin that has a fursuit and write fanfiction...

My family doesn't know but i don't plan to, and i have met no known furry face to face..
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: saph the sergal on August 13, 2015, 07:22:03 PM
advice for anyone trying to tell someone


dont say what we are by what we are not because you will not here the NOT


OT: nope
would i care if they did NOPE
does it matter to me: if they are real friends they will understand if not well they arnt real friends are they
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Setcho on August 13, 2015, 07:55:15 PM
i normally say its a community of people who share a common interest
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Post by: moonwolf101 on August 23, 2015, 02:54:29 PM
2 of my friends know, the good thing is that their my best friends. And it didn't shock em. One said that she would expect me to be interested in furries, and the other one said that furries were kinda creepy. But I was able to convince her that they weren't. I'm not so worries about telling friends I've known for years, I'm worried about telling family     :$
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Post by: alex_moons on August 25, 2015, 03:49:53 AM
Knowbody knows. I have to keep it hidden or I know my family and friends would disown me
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Post by: Dax Declan on August 25, 2015, 07:16:13 AM
Lately I've stopped caring if people find out. If they're not into it, fine.  If you're gonna judge me for it, you're not worth my time as a friend. I'm not running around talking about it but if they see me on the forums and ask I tell them.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Fauxtrot on August 25, 2015, 04:46:50 PM
I'm pretty sure that just one or two friends know I'm a fur. They're okay about it though, they told me they were expecting me to start randomly sending them furry RP commands (eg. "/me licks your face") out of force of habit. I cracked up at that and had to explain what a furry actually was.
But, there is absolutely no way I'm telling them I'm part of a furry forum, though. That would be the end of me.  <.<
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Post by: KelsieTheWolf on August 25, 2015, 04:54:54 PM
Yes they are well aware. However I don't think they fully understand it. Oh well.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: nightmute on August 25, 2015, 07:44:04 PM
I have a good friend that knows, but other than that, all that my other friends know is that I draw and sculpt a lot of "animal people". Then my family knows I have a lot of interest in animals and nerdy stuff, they don't really care. I'm not like "I'm a furry lol" or advertise that anywhere, but if they were to ask, I'd prolly say yeah. I don't know if they know what a furry is.

Now, my husband's side of the family is less... imaginative... and find my sculpture and artwork weird or "different"... they always go "Oh... that's... what she sculpts?! Okay, I guess..." or "it's kind of demonic..." LOL... my husband just shrugs at them. I mean, I personally, don't understand how anthro characters are so weird. My hubby is mostly ok with it, but he thinks fursuits are weird (little does he know, I want to build a partial bwahahaha). If they were to ask, I might deny it, simply because they already think I'm strange enough and they gossip a LOT... I just wouldn't want to hear it. :P
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Post by: SuperSimoholic on August 26, 2015, 03:06:17 PM
I wanted to test the waters with my boyfriend last night and I said "You know, I think I'm going to be a furry." and his response was pulling a face like he'd just seen something painfully awkward on TV (for example, ANY scene from The Office (uk)) and he said "Yeah... Don't." and I was like "What?" and he just kept saying 'Don't". He didn't say it in a nasty or serious tone, just like a 'that's silly' tone. But either way, it looks like I've hit a brick wall on that one. For now.

I also told my friends, but not in person, just in a joint conversation on Facebook (It's how we generally keep in contact, we don't meet up often anymore). But again, just testing the waters, I didn't say "I'm furry", I just mentioned that I wanted a fursuit (I didn't call it a fursuit, I said "You know furies? I want a suit like that"), but sorta justified it by saying I really wanted to 'cosplay' but with a character I've made myself, and that I'd rather wear a mask because otherwise I'd get self concious and wouldn't be able to enjoy myself.

One of them said "That sounds cool" and nothing else (she's usually the chatty one) and I know that's her stock response for 'I'm not really interested'. The other friend just didn't say anything. Not even to make a sarcastic joke (that's the way she is, and I wouldn't change her for the world lol) so I don't know really.
I think they'll just forget about it. But hey, it's out there.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Sergie The Sergon on August 28, 2015, 03:25:32 AM
Most of my family and non fur friends know.  They actually took it very well :P
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: yo on August 28, 2015, 06:14:31 AM
None of my friends know. If they did, they'd be bugging me about it CONSTANTLY. My family doesn't know either, cuz I don't really think it's relevant to tell them. :/ I don't really bring it up, but I don't really try not to.
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Post by: Thompson Foxworth on August 30, 2015, 05:22:27 AM
I drop hints about it all the time but I don't think my friends take is seriously.
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Post by: HollowOfHaze on September 04, 2015, 12:26:26 AM
I get the feeling more people know now than I thought. This is purely speculation at the moment though.
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Post by: Caesium Iodide on September 04, 2015, 04:00:21 AM
A friend of mine has been slightly exposed to drawings of Gravedigger, because naturally as the monster I feel when angry, he has seemed to have taken over Armonia's throne for my mood about myself. But back to the point. The friend doesn't know I'm a furry, and she'll probably think it's really cool and won't tell a soul. I'll have to tell her eventually, but for right now "I have a lot of creativity with drawing the stuff that I do and it always looks cool." (Some sort of quote or whatever. She said something similar to me once.)
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Halei-Helai on September 06, 2015, 12:49:37 PM
I suppose I do wish in some small way that I did have a furry friend offline just to chat with. Some people do know I am furry (people who I knew would be fine with it). Still, I don't really talk about it with them since it isn't their thing. I don't talk to people about my other hobbies that they don't really get, unless they ask of course. Why ramble at people who aren't into it when they likely don't get it and don't even really care? Knowing somebody who is actually a furry would probably have a perk or two.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Ori on September 06, 2015, 01:47:44 PM
One of my friends converted to a furry, after I showed him what I was.
A couple of friend are like, no, don't bring it up. (Basically they don't like furries.)
Another friend doesn't even understand the concept.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HarleyFox on September 08, 2015, 05:33:47 AM
Geez no, nobody knows! Hi guys, how r u? You know, i'm a furry! Mmm...i don't know, it'd be so weird. My friends have odd tastes but i think nothing compare to this :$
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HollowOfHaze on September 08, 2015, 05:35:18 AM
Lord Sonic cometh. Repent.
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Post by: Calypso on September 19, 2015, 07:11:47 PM
No friends know. My little secret.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: yo on September 19, 2015, 09:33:59 PM
Well, now 1 friend knows (my closest) and he says im weird, but he doesn't alienate me because of it.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Obey138 (Matthew "Fluffy") on September 19, 2015, 10:22:54 PM
Well, now 1 friend knows (my closest) and he says im weird, but he doesn't alienate me because of it.
Saying that somebody is weird because of it is already alienating enough.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Angder on September 19, 2015, 10:32:41 PM
Well, now 1 friend knows (my closest) and he says im weird, but he doesn't alienate me because of it.
Saying that somebody is weird because of it is already alienating enough.

Obey. You are weird.

So is Downlinks.

So is everyone on my friends list.

So am I.


Weird is not an insult. not in the slightest. We are a group of people who wear collars, dress up in fursuits, and regularly pretend to be animal/human hybrids. Thats pretty damn weird.

The important thing is not to "be normal" it is to know what you do that is weird, and to embrace it. :)


OT: most of my friends know, only one cares. I am fairly open about it, it seems to cause less problems that way.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Wolxikin on September 20, 2015, 01:54:44 AM
Well, now 1 friend knows (my closest) and he says im weird, but he doesn't alienate me because of it.
Saying that somebody is weird because of it is already alienating enough.

Obey. You are weird.

So is Downlinks.

So is everyone on my friends list.

So am I.


Weird is not an insult. not in the slightest. We are a group of people who wear collars, dress up in fursuits, and regularly pretend to be animal/human hybrids. Thats pretty damn weird.

The important thing is not to "be normal" it is to know what you do that is weird, and to embrace it. :)


OT: most of my friends know, only one cares. I am fairly open about it, it seems to cause less problems that way.

Pshh, who cares what they think anyway, I'll be wierd if I want, I take when people call me weird as a compliment
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: yo on September 20, 2015, 03:36:33 AM
I think its funny when someone calls me weird, cuz at least im not like everybody else I know!
Now my friend just kinda tries to change the subject when he brings up furries, and when he mentions that im weird, he tries not to offend me by joking that hes weird too cuz he watches ALL teh hentai
Hes nice, but still judges me, and WOW, this post was supposed to be less than a line long....
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Obey138 (Matthew "Fluffy") on September 20, 2015, 07:27:06 AM
Well, now 1 friend knows (my closest) and he says im weird, but he doesn't alienate me because of it.
Saying that somebody is weird because of it is already alienating enough.

Obey. You are weird.

So is Downlinks.

So is everyone on my friends list.

So am I.


Weird is not an insult. not in the slightest. We are a group of people who wear collars, dress up in fursuits, and regularly pretend to be animal/human hybrids. Thats pretty damn weird.

The important thing is not to "be normal" it is to know what you do that is weird, and to embrace it. :)


OT: most of my friends know, only one cares. I am fairly open about it, it seems to cause less problems that way.
Weird < different
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: FriendlyFern on October 01, 2015, 10:36:26 PM
Psh...heck yes! I have never been afraid of what people think of me because I know who I am, I like being "weird" and "different", and if anyone has a problem with who I am then what's the point of being friends with someone who doesn't like you. Never hide yourself because true friends care about you and should like you for who you are. ^_^
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Post by: RileyTheFennec on October 04, 2015, 08:58:56 PM
I haven't told any of my friends yet... Should I?
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: HollowOfHaze on October 04, 2015, 09:23:46 PM
I haven't told any of my friends yet... Should I?

Unless you have the immediate necessity to do so, no.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dontier_S on October 17, 2015, 06:52:06 PM
The friend who got me into it knows, one or two others maybe, but I tend to keep most of my interests to myself except common ones like games or movies or something. :-P
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Dontier_S on October 17, 2015, 07:04:28 PM
Basically the same here, especially after I moved to another state, found it very hard making new friends. One of many reasons I'm here myself.
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Post by: Dante Zairou on October 27, 2015, 12:39:18 AM
Only 3 of my really close friends know
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Post by: MrRazot on October 27, 2015, 03:20:01 PM
None of my friends do and never will :P
Simply because there is no reason for them to
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Post by: Celestial_Dragon on October 28, 2015, 09:17:09 AM
None of my friends do and never will :P
Simply because there is no reason for them to

smart thing to do
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Taliaka Anichezachi on October 28, 2015, 09:30:40 AM
At this point everyone does :3 they just kinda found out by unlucky/lucky accidents :) one time i was shearing my Skype with a friend :) to teach him to setup game servers for Minecraft, he just kinda randomly saw that i was on TFF and started asking about it.. when he found out he was like "Oh really! thats freaking amazing dude..." and i was just like "O.. okay..." :D yeah yeah... Victor is a real fluff :) just like me :P
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Synomance Blake on November 02, 2015, 12:32:41 PM
Most of my online friends know I am a furry and i won't hide it from them, though IRL i guess only my best friend knows what I am, as I don#t trust anyone else.
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: yo on November 04, 2015, 06:09:58 AM
Welp, now all of my friends know im a furry, and only my closest of them calls me a dirty yiffer...
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: George on November 05, 2015, 05:39:35 AM
Welp, now all of my friends know im a furry, and only my closest of them calls me a dirty yiffer...

And I'll bet that isn't even intended to be harmful.



(http://i.imgur.com/iYzepDO.jpg)
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: kalan on November 05, 2015, 06:15:31 AM
Yeah thats pretty my best friends in a nutshell. Im all like hey queer and there all whats up fag and than we eat dorritos and go fishing
Title: Re: Do Your Friends Know You're a Furry?
Post by: Poe~ on November 05, 2015, 06:48:55 AM
None of my friends know, not because I'm embarrassed, but because they might Google it and see all the sexual stuff and think'OMG, this thirteen year old is getting into porn and all that stuff!'

I don't need that.

Anyways, my family knows, but not the whole thing and how far down I've dug into this fandom.

Btw IM A CLEAN FURRY AND I DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH PORN OR SEX.