Has anyone noticed...??

[Grant87]

I'm kinda aiming this at the guys, but has anyone noticed that alot of guys on IMVU don't wanna talk with other guys?

Also makes me think if their like that in real life, say if a guy trys talking to them they would just run off or something?

I myself am open to talking to anyone no matter what their age (with in reason), sex, creed or race.

[Leo Dusai]

yeah I noticed too. I only get maybe one or two guys that are actually interested in talking, I don't bother requesting chats anymore because I get more responses when I leave them to come to me. Personally I don't mind who/what I'm talking to as long as they're nice about it.

[Grant87]

I'm glad that it's not only me it happens to and that someone else has noticed.

[The Lone Wolf]

I noticed this when I first Joined IMVU but I dont hit Chat Now too much anymore so I'd pretty much forgotten.

The real question is if somebody would rather run away than speak to another guy, would you really want to speak to them anyway?
???
Maybe they are doing us a big favour by avoiding us.

[Vosur Aekira]

I am probably on the other end of this.... but my reason is that if I don't know you from elsewhere or you haven't decided to let me know that you have something worthwhile to say through the chat client by other means, I'm most likely to turn you down. It's nothing personal but I have recieved way too many invites and buddy requests from people I don't even remember seeing elsewhere... which most of the time they beg for stuff.

[Grant87]

I agree with lone wolf maybe their not worth talking to and doing us a favour by avoiding us.

[Vosur Aekira]

I don't exactly 'avoid' anyone... I prefer knowing them elsewhere before resorting to a chat client. If you were to send me an IM request while I'm still online, and your username was something I could easily note as being 'you', or you let me know by other means who you were, then I'd probably accept it.

[skytem]

thats not the same with me i guess most of the guys on my freinds list talk with me alot?

[WingedZephyr]

I get very few girl who are interested in talking to me, another female. So it's either just me or females don't like talking to each other either.   I do know guys are less likely to talk to each other though. I'm not altogether sure why. Though, a lot of guys (not all, of course, and girls too) are on IMVU just to meet the opposite gender anyway, so that could be why they don't bother meeting other guys. *shrugs* People are strange sometimes.

[ephemral]

are on IMVU just to meet the opposite gender anyway

Yes. It's a chat program so you'll have the vast amounts of people who mainly use it to "meet" the opposite gender.
If a person you don't know invites you that's using the same gender avatar and leaves because of it
you should have known before hand.
People mostly do that for anonymous "meeting". I have a Chatango messenger on my page.
The vast majority of PMs that I get on it are from people who just found me(my profile has a sexy panda in her undies) in the search feature
and want to "meet" with me.

[Talderon]

I don't care who/what/sex I chat with, but my problem has been, they see me, in a furry skin, and make some comment then leave.

I leave my IMVU on buddies or DND most of the time.

[Vosur Aekira]

When I'm online and not talking to anyone else in the chat client, I normally leave myself available in case if someone has to contact me for any reason that would seem important to me.

[Zamiel]

 :peek:
I found it rare if any males said "hi" to me. Even rarer if they stayed after they found out what I looked like AFTER my Avi had loaded!!  > Then again, people didn't want to speak when they saw my human Avi either. Guess alot of people feel more comfortable around 'cool' conformity, rather than originality  

Blessed Be  :sparkle:

[IamTheS]

For an extended amount of time when I first began using IMVU, I only had females on my Buddy List. Why? Because every male that chatted with me either A) Wished to speak with me about stuff I was not interested in, or Was dumber than a box of hair. Only one in ten females fit that description back then.

Fortunately, that is no longer the case.

[Dr. Strange]

i basicaly have al guys on my list cuz the girls ive met keep askin me out or to hook them up with cute guys, jeezus...go get your own...i would love to chat with another girl on imvu furry or none. i get so bored most of the time i sign out then backin repeatedly for the sheer entertainment or dont bother signing in at all...