Needy and it's downsides.

[Jane]

usually I try my best to keep to myself but I always end up feeling very lonesome and needy. To me being needy seems like an annoyance especially when I'm needy around my friends or family. If so how do you deal with this ?

[Dax Declan]

The needy people need love the most. They just have to find someone who can provide it.

[Teiko]

I used to be very needy too. I still am sometimes but i've trained myself to suppress it. It takes a little bit of inflating your own ego a bit, but you should realize that you are the center of the universe, and that you don't need anybody else to make you happy. You are the best around. If anything, other people need you. And then i ask myself, since im so great and all, why should i care if im alone? -oh, that's right, i dont 

[Jane]

I try suppressing it but it seems to make the feelings worse and I end up feeling a bit sad. I'll try harder to find ways to help myself out

[Obey138 (Matthew "Fluffy")]

i've trained myself to suppress it. It takes a little bit of inflating your own ego a bit, but you should realize that you are the center of the universe, and that you don't need anybody else to make you happy. You are the best around. If anything, other people need you. And then i ask myself, since im so great and all, why should i care if im alone? -oh, that's right, i dont 

You little spy *picks him up and starts shaking him* What have you done to the real Teiko? Where is he?

[Teiko]

*bites Obey and bites Tybalt* ARRRGGHHH

(No not that obey Tybalt . Maybe...... )

[Obey138 (Matthew "Fluffy")]

Well, onto the topic, I think I'm this kind of person, but I don't know how to deal with it

[Jane]

Its a bit difficult for me to. Only person that helps me is my mate. But sometimes I feel like I get a bit annoying lol

[Teiko]

It really is a choice. It doesn't seem like it but it is. You have the capacity to be self-sufficient but are choosing not to.

[Jane]

Probably. I need to work on it.

[Kipsy]

I guess I'm pretty needy too, but only around certain people. Like if I'm sick I want to be baby'd  because that's what I'm used to. My mom still babies me when I'm sick. xD I wish my boyfriend would baby me when I'm sick too, but he tells me to go sleep in a different room. The funny thing is he will want to be baby'd when he is sick.


Other than that I'm not needy with friends. I don't like socializing with people so that probably plays into me not needing friends. lol

[Jane]

I'm not very needy to my parents most of the time I stay in my room, but to friends its otherwise xD . its and on going process to be worked on.