Need advice with a girl I'm crushing on

[MrPinkSheep]

I usually don't come here, but I figured with my current issue, I could stop by on this forum page.


So anyways, I've had a crush on this girl for almost a year now, and I'm still disappointed that I'm not able to talk to her yet without getting anxious. I have talked to her in the past, but I've never had a full conversation with her. And she knows I like her. At one point I did just ask her if she wanted to hang out at lunch, but it never happened, and I honestly have no idea why.


But recently, I feel like she likes me back. And I have reason to believe this: (Keep in mind, all of this stuff has been after I told her I liked her)
- I was in the foyer, and she was sitting across from where I was, looking in my direction. (Maybe she's trying to talk to me?)
- I've caught her looking at me, numerous times in the cafeteria
- One time, when I was walking to the bus, I saw a pencil land in front of me, when I looked back, she was walking behind me (FYI, I didn't know it was her till I got on the bus and looked out the window. Was she trying to get my attention?)
[size=78%]- One time when I did try to talk to her in the [/size]cafeteria, when I sat down next to her, she didn't even turn her head to me (Is she nervous?)
- When she was visiting my guitar class, she began acting all weird, laughing really loudly, looking like she was trying to impress me.

My question is, how likely is it that she likes me back? And what is the best way I can approach her?

I hope I get some help!

[Charlie_arts]

not sure how long this has been going on, but, just ask her out. Worst case you have missinterperted all the signs (they are a bit vague and a bit of conisidental, not all though) and she don't want to go out. Trust me on this one but you are better of knowing how she feels as soon as possible. It only gets worse if you wait and wait and wait, untill someone else asks her out and you miss your chance.
And lets say she don't like you, then you will likely stop thinking about her the same way and can move on, it truly blows to have a crush on someone only to feel like you have wasted your time and a lot of it.

But in best case, she likes you back 

[Trixsie Vixen]

I think Charlie is on the money.  Throw the dice!  It sounds like she might have feelings for you, so it would be a shame to both be too nervous to make a move.  If you get shot down it will suck, but that will pass way quicker than the agony of a one-sided crush or the regret of doing nothing and finding out later that she liked you.


I'm kind of an optimist though, so...


I guess it's your call, but good luck! 

[Panda]

This thread makes me smile because this is like, exactly how one of my relationships started!
I had a huge crush on this guy I barely talked to, like so bad that I would giggle and blush whenever he was around. We had a couple classes together so I saw him a lot, and my best friend ended up telling him about my crush SO then he started doing things to get my attention, like throwing things in my direction just like you described I ended up working up the nerve to add him on Myspace (lol), we got to messaging and then eventually texting. It took a couple years (we dated other people during this) but eventually we ended up dating ^^

So, yes, I would say she might like you. Maybe add her on some social media and then start talking there? Or even come up with an excuse to ask her for her number. Its way easier to talk through text, and then when you do see each other in person, it'll come a little easier 

[[INACTIVE]]

Just do it

[Ventus Fall]

Just do it

Considering all the advice here, and me agreeing to said advice... I think the following is in order as a response to MetalGearStowe:

[Kate Hanami]

I don't know how to help since I don't know her, but there a hint that you might be missing, does she touch you very often?
if, for example, she comes from behind you and tap you shoulder and casually say "S'up?" but delays to move the hands off your shoulder, that's a sign, and if she goes all silly  with thing like "look how your hand is huge compared to mine, that like "I'm just wait to see if he notices it", or grab you by the hand to show anything, like a movie poster or a portrait that she have a look alike in her house, but there might be some more subtle hints like:
she walks up to you and say "what time is it?" and grab your arm and look at your wristwatch, when you say something stupid, she taps you in the chest or in the arm and say anything like "yeah sure, as if" or "not likely, but good thought" and walk away, or pick a part of you upper wear (shirt, jacket, etc...) and say " is that new?" or "what it says in here?"
there are other types of clues, but this is one of the most likely,
but remember each person is different, that isn't a guide to anyone.