telling someone my feelings

[randombacon]

 I have this huge issue about not being able to comeout and talk to people about my feelings or whats going on in my life i have so many secrets no one noes and i cna never ask someone for advise and i am very shy about addmiting this stuff to i dont really now how i can over come this or deal with it

[Alice The Necrofox]

either find a gf (or bf depending), one that you trust, or just a really good friend.

or us. we always have an open ear or two.

[randombacon]

i do have a gf but still i cant really tell her my fellings not really my freinds exept one he understands alot of things

and the furs on the fourm i can trust you guys all the time

 but still i cant talk to other people about my probs

[Alice The Necrofox]

why not? insecurity? whether or not they will be told to someone else? just plain paranoia?

[AirRaiser]

Sounds like you lack trust in others. I know it can take a long time to fully trust someone to let them in. Everyone's different, you maybe just need to take a chance if you really want to talk to someone. I used to see a therapist, took me a year before I said anything to her. I would just go and sit with her for an hour, she would ask me questions and all I would do is make short answers.

When you feel you are ready and you can trust someone, then you will open up.

[randombacon]

yea but i seem i can trust people if on the forum and my steam because i never see them

[WingedZephyr]

According to what you first said, you can't seem to trust people you can see either.

You have to trust someone sometime.

[Packedsnack]

Long term, it will be important to find someone you trust. But for now even if you can't see them the forum is a good way to tell people how you feel. Hey, that's what this forum's for. There are things I would only tell to the people on here, I can't see why you can't do the same for now.