should I be angry?

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as some of you might know I had a mate when I joined the forums but I had to break it off because he was way too clingy/insane for me.
But now he keeps posting facebook statuses about how awful of a person I am and if that wasn't enough he made out with my best friend just to piss me off. I know for a fact that he really isn't interested in my friend, but he's just doing it to hurt me.
He thinks he's in a relationship with my friend now and I don't know how my friend feels. But he spends time with his friends (who are my friends too) and keeps ranting about how much I suck and my friend is a good mate.
blarg.... frustrated fox is frustrated

[Puncia]

Mm I think maybe you should ask what your friend feels about this. Is your ex mate too clingy for this person also? Does anyone agree with what he's saying behind your back or do they think he's talking nonsense?

Other than that, don't let it get to you. It's just what he wants and it'll only make both of you miserable.

[Ares the Ram]

hes just doing it to hurt you, not unlike a troll. if your friends believe what he says about you without asking for your side of the story, then they weren't really friends at all.

[WingedZephyr]

Step 1: Block on facebook.

Step 2: Make sure your friends know that you're not comfortable being around him/talking about him/whatever, and ask that they respect that. They can still be mutual friends with you and your ex, but they should listen to how you feel about it.

Step 3: Ignore your ex. You broke it off because he was insane, and this is pretty much just proving your point. Getting angry over it all is only going to give him the satisfaction of knowing he's getting his "revenge." If he has issues getting over you, let that be his problem. Move on, and don't get caught up in his drama.

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I already did unfriend him on facebook, and I don't think my friends believe him. A lot know that he's pretty psycho

[WingedZephyr]

There's a difference between unfriending and blocking.

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yeahhh... he blocked me himself but I can view his statuses through my friend's facebook

[Alexei]

Ugh I hate people like that.

I know it's hard but the best thing to do is ignore him.
He wants to make you upset so that's exactly what you mustn't do.

[WingedZephyr]

yeahhh... he blocked me himself but I can view his statuses through my friend's facebook

But that's kind of my point. You're going out of your way to see how he's trying to make you miserable. So if you don't want to get upset about it, don't read the stuff he's saying.

[✡]

But that's kind of my point. You're going out of your way to see how he's trying to make you miserable. So if you don't want to get upset about it, don't read the stuff he's saying.

I believe you are correct, I'm trying to avoid him and focus on single life

[icy wolf]

hey drake, just ignore him  best thing to do is to  not even think of it;  you will find some one else that isnt insane like he is.