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i hope the mods dont mind me commenting on this again, its been a while. However, I thought I'd update everyone...
I've never been too good at following advice, so i decided to stay with my current mate..
You see, once I stopped focusing on what was so good about my ex mate, I could begin focusing on what was so amazing about my current mate..
There was nothing really that special about my ex mate, I dont know, I just think I was so obsessed with him, not really too sure why now...
Dont get me wrong, he's a great guy.. We just never gelled that well... I think I wanted us to gel so much, that I became obsessed..
But obsession has nothing on love of course.. As much as me ex tried to make me happy, he tried to hard..
My current mate doesnt need to try, he's just himself, and I love every moment of it...
Thank you all for your advice..
I'm glad it all worked out though
... See, no rushed decisions and life is amazing in the end