Hey, welcome to the forums!
As for how quiet it is... yeah, the forum used to have more people active (back in the day, man I sound so old saying that
) depends when you're on and what you're interested in I guess.
I mostly keep to the RP section these days and drop by when I have some spare time, so I know how you feel with not knowing how to best join in with what's going on... Hopefully you'll find a good time here though, there's always some good people around. Feel free to message me if you want some conversation, I can always find time to chat
KittKat~