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Needy and it's downsides.
« on: May 16, 2015, 03:05:30 PM »
usually I try my best to keep to myself but I always end up feeling very lonesome and needy. To me being needy seems like an annoyance especially when I'm needy around my friends or family. If so how do you deal with this ?
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #1 on: May 17, 2015, 12:17:48 AM »
The needy people need love the most. They just have to find someone who can provide it.
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #2 on: May 17, 2015, 02:56:00 AM »
I used to be very needy too. I still am sometimes but i've trained myself to suppress it. It takes a little bit of inflating your own ego a bit, but you should realize that you are the center of the universe, and that you don't need anybody else to make you happy. You are the best around. If anything, other people need you. And then i ask myself, since im so great and all, why should i care if im alone? -oh, that's right, i dont  :D
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #3 on: May 17, 2015, 03:25:47 AM »
I try suppressing it but it seems to make the feelings worse and I end up feeling a bit sad. I'll try harder to find ways to help myself out
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #4 on: May 17, 2015, 07:15:41 AM »
i've trained myself to suppress it. It takes a little bit of inflating your own ego a bit, but you should realize that you are the center of the universe, and that you don't need anybody else to make you happy. You are the best around. If anything, other people need you. And then i ask myself, since im so great and all, why should i care if im alone? -oh, that's right, i dont  :D
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #5 on: May 17, 2015, 07:31:21 AM »
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #6 on: May 17, 2015, 08:48:28 AM »
Well, onto the topic, I think I'm this kind of person, but I don't know how to deal with it

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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #7 on: May 17, 2015, 03:49:37 PM »
Its a bit difficult for me to. Only person that helps me is my mate. But sometimes I feel like I get a bit annoying lol
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2015, 03:55:04 PM »
It really is a choice. It doesn't seem like it but it is. You have the capacity to be self-sufficient but are choosing not to.
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #9 on: May 17, 2015, 05:02:03 PM »
Probably. I need to work on it.
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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #10 on: May 19, 2015, 07:39:16 AM »
I guess I'm pretty needy too, but only around certain people. Like if I'm sick I want to be baby'd  because that's what I'm used to. My mom still babies me when I'm sick. xD I wish my boyfriend would baby me when I'm sick too, but he tells me to go sleep in a different room. The funny thing is he will want to be baby'd when he is sick.


Other than that I'm not needy with friends. I don't like socializing with people so that probably plays into me not needing friends. lol

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Re: Needy and it's downsides.
« Reply #11 on: May 19, 2015, 11:52:59 AM »
I'm not very needy to my parents most of the time I stay in my room, but to friends its otherwise xD . its and on going process to be worked on.
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