well, when i first came here. i was really confused about what the heck this was, and i had mixed feelings about the entire fandom... well, that was after i found out what it was, since i was, like i said, confused about the entire business. now i only have a dislike against the adult section of the fandom, but i kinda started seeing the average forumer over here as a everyday person, so yeah, i've changed for the better.