Well I know you asked me for help, but you know I'm not a genius or anything when it comes to finding a girlfriend x.x.
However, it's all about just going out a talking to all kinds of people, I didn't care if they were half-dead, as long as they had a great personality and were understanding of my qualities. I met my girlfriend by pure chance however, we were both involved with an occult and then when it backfired we both stood clear and we're lucky to be still standing.
I met her through one of the leaders, somewhere along the way I discussed with her what I and her thought about the organization and obviously it was all bad, so we finally confronted the leaders and ended things there at which point a few days afterward the leaders got nervous and decided to break it up calling the whole thing a huge "game" where they irresponsibly let several people die because they lied to them and the people trying to accomplish their dreams had been failed again but by the only people they thought they could ever trust... in effect some were already unstable and unfortunately committed suicide because they thought they just couldn't handle their harsh realities any longer. Me and 3 others, 1 of which I believe to be gone now... are all that's left. Me and my girlfriend, we've been through a lot, and I've been unappreciative of that often times, but I always come back to her in the end. There could be better or worse girls out there for me, but I'm happy with who she is and I'm settled down. Me and her are going to stay together hopefully forever, with my dearest babe Straywolf :-*