I'd perfer having both, one side to vent, the other to embrace...
Hair shading is also awesome, although I wish I could see it on the face more....
Yeah, shading on the face is a good idea-- that can be my next step!
Hehe, I think myself it is perhaps important to have both, but hopefully my poem engages a question of what a person really wants to be like- thankfully you picked up on that!
Thanks Zeph, always encouraging when I get complements from you!
xxx