Ok so my parents are changing my little brothers' last names to our stepfather's last name, and they asked if I wanted to change mine. Now don't get me wrong I absolutely cannot stand my real father, but I am now the last one to carry on the family name. If I change mine, well, it dies. I don't want to be the reason our name died, but I also don't want to give the impression that I still tolerate my father. Help....please.