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Offline Octavia

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Re: ex mate vs mate
« Reply #15 on: April 12, 2011, 11:41:44 PM »
Quote from: Gothy on April 10, 2011, 01:52:47 AM
Quote from: Kin Kitsune on April 10, 2011, 01:48:18 AM
My advice? Don't date either of them.

This exactly. Your current mate deserves your best effort and it's not fair to him that you don't really love him because you still have feelings for your ex.



yep...I agree with this as well....it's why I"m not dating anyone right now as I'm still not 100% over my ex boyfreind...even though we're still friends and see each other at the local furmeets...buti'm close to being over him
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Re: ex mate vs mate
« Reply #16 on: May 01, 2011, 07:36:35 PM »
-update-

i hope the mods dont mind me commenting on this again, its been a while.  However, I thought I'd update everyone...

I've never been too good at following advice, so i decided to stay with my current mate..
You see, once I stopped focusing on what was so good about my ex mate, I could begin focusing on what was so amazing about my current mate..
There was nothing really that special about my ex mate, I dont know, I just think I was so obsessed with him, not really too sure why now...
Dont get me wrong, he's a great guy.. We just never gelled that well... I think I wanted us to gel so much, that I became obsessed..
But obsession has nothing on love of course.. As much as me ex tried to make me happy, he tried to hard..
My current mate doesnt need to try, he's just himself, and I love every moment of it...
:)
Thank you all for your advice..
I'm glad it all worked out though :)...  See, no rushed decisions and life is amazing in the end :)
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Re: ex mate vs mate
« Reply #17 on: May 01, 2011, 07:51:20 PM »
Wonderful! I am very happy for you.
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Re: ex mate vs mate
« Reply #18 on: May 01, 2011, 10:55:17 PM »
I'm so happy this has worked out well for you MinxKitty. :)
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