What's your opinion on creeps

[Renefrade]

I dont mean the type who harass others or stuff like that. Maybe the right words would be perverts, or one who is looking for another girl to have fun with, but then again. They might be nice people even if they have the typical needs. Just curious to what you think in general.
http://youtu.be/Wlqt5EKfP5g

[MrRazot]

A very odd question imo
almost a bit creepy?
lol jk


I reserve my judgement on all people. Looks may deceive and I may appear as much a creep to them as they do to me.
As for guys looking for girls, what guy isn't? Guys typically just don't get the signals women give off.
But then what's indeed to say they're bad guys? How do we not know they're decent with a well off family?


Reserve judgement.

[The Past]

I kinda think similarly to MrRazot. Though I won't deny the fact that I do judge people quite a bit, but I'm aware enough to not take my judgments seriously and don't treat people any different unless they seriously do something to rub me the wrong way. I will poke fun at how someone appears (not real physical appearance, normally. That's very rare for me. I'm thinking more of online contact.), yet still have an honest conversation with them as I would anyone else. Basically, I take note of a goofy thing about someone, laugh at it to myself, but don't let it get to my head.

Now, as for perverts... now, it's normal for most people to have a sexual side. It's all part of nature. Sexual attraction is certainly not perversion or sexism. The word "pervert" and its different forms seem to be stretched and thrown about to the point where it just means "someone who enjoys sexual things".

However. I once dated someone who would touch me in "sensitive" places without my permission, even continuing to do so after I told them to stop several times. After we broke up, they would only talk to me about what I've done in bed, and when I would try to have a clean roleplay with them, they would turn it into blatant sex roleplays.

This, in my eyes, describes a pervert. Perverts are obsessed with sex, and ignore many or all of the boundaries of other people. These are the type of people I really, really dislike.

However, if the pervert is young (such as my example, at that time), they are likely dealing with the goofy stage of growing up, where their hormones are going full blast. This will most likely even out as they get older, and they will stop being obnoxious and learn self control. But many, many people just never grow out of it.

[RosaKitten]

As long as they don't actually harass someone there's nothing to fault them for I guess ;o

[Mishimi]

Different strokes for different folks. I only get annoyed when they flaunt their sluttery, especially on Twitter. I realize not all gay guys are like this, but the majority of gay male furs on Twitter act like any guy with a swingin' sausage will do and tweet about it constantly. It gets really annoying and old after 5 minutes.

[Renefrade]

I think the internet makes it much easier to be one. Or tempted to do stuff that one wouldn't normally do in real life.
Like one would be really curious for example about a girl's....

Well i won't say... but its like a really awkward thing in general, that can arouse one's curiosity to know strangers. And being rejected might be ok, but more awkward if the person like is awkwarded by it, which makes sense. But... yeah its like a weird situation

But talking about common interests are usually most fun

[Trixsie Vixen]

Different things can creep out different people too.  I've been out and out propositioned for different things by complete strangers.  That's a little off putting, but when I've said no thanks it is generally taken in good spirits.  However when I know someone better I've found myself thinking "I don't know if they are interested in me but I wish they'd make a move or something so I know".


One dear friend would always surprise cuddle me from behind.  I found it endearing but others might not have.


I figure, it IS the internet and there are some behaviours which have become common place that would be completely taboo IRL. 


So (trying to tread carefully here) if, for example, you were "curious about a girl's..." flossing habits, then fine.  Be courteous, wow you have great teeth, do you floss?  Yeah how often, with every brushing or twice a week or what?  Do you prefer floss on a reel of the little stick things with floss?  I would love to see the type of floss you use.  That sort of thing.


Then if she says well, my floss if private and I'm not comfortable showing it to you then be cool and respect that.


It she says sure I'm happy to show you my Colgate, low mint wax-coated floss dispenser, then be respectful about this too.  Show your appreciation and don't automatically say something like that's nice sure but can I see inside your bathroom cabinet now?


Hope that helps!

[Renefrade]

Wow thx. Kinda helpful to know one's perspective. But i agree on being polite. It never pays being rude to other people, and its nice to care for what they think and stuff like that ^^

[Trixsie Vixen]

It's a good rule for most everything.  If anyone is interested I like the floss picks.  The vertical ones not so much the horizontal ones, but I have a floss dispenser which I use in the gap between using the last pick and buying more...


I don't like the little miniature bottle brush type cleaner toothpicks.  I find them creepy

[Mishimi]

Different things can creep out different people too.  I've been out and out propositioned for different things by complete strangers.  That's a little off putting, but when I've said no thanks it is generally taken in good spirits.  However when I know someone better I've found myself thinking "I don't know if they are interested in me but I wish they'd make a move or something so I know".


One dear friend would always surprise cuddle me from behind.  I found it endearing but others might not have.


I figure, it IS the internet and there are some behaviours which have become common place that would be completely taboo IRL. 


So (trying to tread carefully here) if, for example, you were "curious about a girl's..." flossing habits, then fine.  Be courteous, wow you have great teeth, do you floss?  Yeah how often, with every brushing or twice a week or what?  Do you prefer floss on a reel of the little stick things with floss?  I would love to see the type of floss you use.  That sort of thing.


Then if she says well, my floss if private and I'm not comfortable showing it to you then be cool and respect that.


It she says sure I'm happy to show you my Colgate, low mint wax-coated floss dispenser, then be respectful about this too.  Show your appreciation and don't automatically say something like that's nice sure but can I see inside your bathroom cabinet now?


Hope that helps!

That whole exchange would creep me out... Who's THAT interested in floss, much less hiding it? Sounds like serial killer sh right there. I know it's just an example but lol... weird example..

[Kozy]

If I remember I was called a creep once for helping someone in tescos then chased out of tescos and bickered at for being a creep and I didn't even know what was going on I don't know what she said and I was like sorry... sorry I don't know if she meant that kind of creep but this makes me think that may be creep is thrown around a bit too much...

[Trixsie Vixen]

That whole exchange would creep me out... Who's THAT interested in floss, much less hiding it? Sounds like serial killer sh right there. I know it's just an example but lol... weird example..

LOL, that's me all over!


I think I should have gone with antique writing desks in hindsight


Tra la la!


*skips away*

[Crystali]

lol they kinda creepy but sometimes flirty creepy like u just wanna get rid of them 

[Rottech]

Well.. I am not too fond of creeps in general and tend to be very cautious around such people, but that's pretty much it. The worst that has happened is probably some bloody guy who asked to have "fun" with me on Facebook when it CLEARLY said on my profile that I am in a relationship.. blocked that sod immediately. But that was it. I try not to make too much of a fuzz about things unless I am clearly enraged beyond comprehension.

[Cirrus]

I've always felt that creepy is often how you do it, not what you do. Perfectly normal, non-creepy people have casual sex all the time, they just seek it out in ways that don't make other people feel uncomfortable or threatened. They don't give off "this person might be unstable", "this person is hiding something", or "this person is trying to get all up in your personal space" vibes.

Sometimes the problem is just that they make others nervous because they're nervous, they're trying too hard to be polite and come off as having an agenda, they misjudge when it is or isn't okay to touch someone, they share way too much personal information too soon, or they word things in a way that gets misinterpreted. I've seen and been creeped out by all but the first at one point or another. I can sympathize with people who are acting weird because they're nervous, having been there myself.