Over here in Germany most meetups consist of going out for food together. Some go to a bar, some choose more restaurant-ish places. In the last years, bowling has gotten really popular and happens every few months.
Depending on the number of furries there may or may not be a suitwalk beforehand. Whether or not Suits or parts of it can be worn at the final location needs to be talked through with the owner. Most are open to the idea of giant plushies at their place because kids love them and it's good PR for families with children. Be aware though that not all other guests will like what they see.