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Author Topic: Anger, then depression.  (Read 1043 times)

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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #15 on: November 03, 2015, 08:27:30 PM »
Well a reaction is a choice by itself. Also don't confuse emotion with intensity. Destroying things, screaming only tires you down and makes you less intense and intensity is a fuel for anger, but not a problem.

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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #16 on: November 03, 2015, 08:35:43 PM »
I made this post to vent, not to discuss the situation any further. No one has to offer advice on every post that is made in this board, it can be for just ranting too.
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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #17 on: November 03, 2015, 08:39:42 PM »
No Traum and 138. Sometimes emotions just take control over you and you can't always control them.

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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #18 on: November 03, 2015, 08:41:15 PM »
and then you suffer

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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #19 on: November 03, 2015, 08:42:50 PM »
No Traum and 138. Sometimes emotions just take control over you and you can't always control them.

Actually that's false. Well at least for me anyways. I can always take the time and rationalixe before I make an outburst.


They call it thinking.


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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #20 on: November 03, 2015, 08:43:07 PM »
Traum, the hell is wrong with you? Not everyone is perfect

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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #21 on: November 03, 2015, 08:45:51 PM »
YES, anger, as well as sadness, CAN build up. This is a well known phenomenon. It is common for one to have these emotions build up from repeated and large cases of problems, to the point where even the tiniest of annoyances they normally wouldn't sweat will finally make them burst into a rage or tears.

This has happened to me plenty of times, too. I very rarely cry, but once at school, I was so stressed out by happenings then that when I zoned out and someone sternly told me "sit down, you're out" when I had been chosen out during a classroom game, I couldn't stop myself from sobbing at my desk. All the attention I got from that only made it worse.
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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #22 on: November 03, 2015, 08:51:47 PM »
Eva, doesn't that mean you were angry or sad before the final drop?

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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #23 on: November 03, 2015, 08:58:09 PM »
Yes Traum. That's generally what is meant by the build up of anger and sadness. What's your point?
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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #24 on: November 03, 2015, 08:59:39 PM »
All of you just be quiet.


To me it seems you all are more eager to prove your point then to see why I may feel as I do.
Not all rants have to be discussed at great length, emotions can't be proven wrong and if you think otherwise, shut up, because this is not the thread where you should feel the need to argue.


I originally posted this to get advice from people who may have similar experiences or can provide support or resources I do not have available to me in the state I am in at this time.


What the hell is wrong with all of you? Not every single thread here has to become a debate and I just needed a place to express my feeling and be done with them. You all are wasting your time if you came here just to challenge me, my emotions, or what other people have to say on this thread.


In the end it is a problem I have that affects me personally, not a prompt for a debate team.
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Re: Anger, then depression.
« Reply #25 on: November 03, 2015, 09:05:27 PM »
Good point, Keinai. I feel it's best to lock this.

 

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