Straight up, I say... I need a new friend...

[supykun]

I'm just a fur who wants someone to bond with.
I wonder what I've done to deserve chronic loneliness..?

To begin my vent... my one and only true friend, whom I cared and considered as my best friend, is no longer a true or best friend of mine anymore. I feel devastated and even isolated than ever.

So, where did things go wrong...

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I am a nineteen years-old fur baby-blue fox. Despite my age, I am extremely socially awkward. Never had a single best friend ever since, but I've always wanted one. Dearly.

I will not name, but I met a fellow furry bud back last September. He and I got along, first with PC gaming, but I lost interest in all sectors of gaming, and fully turned my focus onto cartooning and animating that I was far more motivated into. He strangely followed me into my agenda, and continued to be by my side.

Then that month and the next month, I faced one of the darkest blackholes of my life, and I felt life-and-death situation daily back then. I had no hope.. but this dude was there for me. He was by my side, and I relied on him, and he was amazingly supportive of me in my darkest pain. I cannot thank him enough to help me go through.

But, that friend of mine is no longer the same as he used to be. My best friend began shrinking his interest, and spent less time chatting together. I was and still is somewhat confused on why this is happening, but regardless, I am heartbroken for almost over a month now.

I faced another paranoia attack back due to the fact that my crush has become uncontactable, and my vent to him was met with almost no interest, and he instead played Warframe with his other gaming buddies and didn't bother to respond. Yet, he still justifies on why he was so careless (his words, not mine) by saying that he just didn't care... I barely managed to escape the emotional wreck without his help... with his attitude still being similar however, I realized I can't continue my relationship with him.

Despite that disastrous turn, I still managed to confess to him that I considered him as my bestie.

He responded that he didn't feel the same back.

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I've been feeling extremely lonely for the past month constantly... I wonder if there is any fur out there who I could get along with..? I hope there is.. please DM...

I'm willing to start a new page..

[George]

What's with the formatting?

[Malina]

Well friends come and go all the time, I know personally that someone you may call your bestie could be very distant quickly, and the only real thing to do is keep your head up and find new people. This site is a very good place to start, you might also want to check with any local furry communities to see if you can meet anyone with similar interests


Seems a bit cliché I know but you basically gotta keep your head up and put yourself out there. Post in some boards around here and I'm sure some people will reach out. You can message me anytime (although I'm quite busy as of late) 


Good luck !

[uhh]

I know what it's like to feel lonely all the time, but it's best to keep up with life rather than be drown in it. I understand that it's hard when you feel so isolated from the rest of the world, but the furry fandom is pretty awesome with making sure everyone is loved. I'm sure if you keep posting here, you'll make a bunch of new friends.

[Albie]

I'm sorry to hear about you and your friend falling out.  Most of my friends are online nowadays.  And many of them come and go unfortunately.  I always look at what I have rather than what I no longer have though.  There are lots of good furs here and many people would listen if you speak.  So keep speaking.  Rather than making one friend.  You may make many.

[Lord Isscarus]

That's gotta suck dude, I'm truly sorry.


I'm 14, and live in Texas, I know I may not be much help, or any help, but maybe I can help if you'd like to talk about it?


I know, talking to a young teen about relationship problems might not be the best thing to do, but if you ever get desperate, im here for you.


Of you want I could give you my # or you could give me yours so we can talk. I hope I can be of some help, at least SOME.

[Michen_S]

As said, life happens. I've also went through it, but I really would like an IRL friend with who I can get around. Almost all of my friends I talk to over the internet, and they're mostly not very close to me. All I can say is do your best to make new friends and be patient. Don't come over as desperate, or you'll scare people away or make bad kinds of friends.

You say you never had a best friend, but then you talk about one person who was always there for you for quite a while. I guess maybe you said you never had one because you felt lonely. But don't forget about who stood by your side in the past. You can look back to that time with gratitude, and the hope that, someday, you'll find someone else who can be your friend.

[VoodooMax]

Hello, if you want someone to talk to, you can talk to me. We also can become friends, I'm a laid back individual and easy going. PM me if you wish to talk, all the best.