I'm charismatic and a brilliant speaker. I'm not trying to sound arrogant, but that's what I am. The art of speaking, writing, and even music is my forte. So I generally have very few problems speaking to others.
However, I'm so incredibly introverted that I rarely venture out of my small circle. I could count the people I consider friends on half of a hand. It's not that I'm socially awkward, I just don't want to put the effort into making a bunch of friends I don't need. That's just my preference, as I'm always a bit of a loner.
So it boils down in a personality and mental aspect that I probably could have many sensible girls, and even convince people who would otherwise not consider me a date to date me, or at least befriend me. However, I choose not to. That's just me. And I think in the long run, it'll help me more when it comes to the girls.
...I forgot what this post was about.