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I'm done with my parents.
« on: September 30, 2009, 10:49:09 PM »
I'm pretty upset with my parents, they never trust me with anything, I want them to just go away for like a week or 2 and just leave me the heck alone. I'm trying to make it through my life but everything just sucks.

I want just one day without yelling, it hurts me inside and I can't take it anymore, I'm on the edge of suicidal.
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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #1 on: October 01, 2009, 12:10:29 AM »
Sometimes I feal the same way. My mom's not too bad, but my dad drives me insane. My sister does, too.

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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #2 on: October 01, 2009, 12:33:19 AM »
You sound like my mate, Wolfgang. He was suicidal at one point because of his parents (nothing's ever good enough for them and they always call him a failure).
Sorry if you don't like your situation being compared to another's though, because I know that frustrates people sometimes.
But anyways, if anything, just let having to deal with all the stuff you have to deal with make you a stronger person. That's what my mate has done.
I hope you don't go full on suicidal. That would be just terrible.
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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #3 on: October 01, 2009, 01:58:52 AM »
I tried to commit suicide once. I ended up with a 3 week headache. But aside from that, almost all my friends have gone through this or are still going through this. really, I see it as part of growing up. Yeah your parents suck, but that's how parents are. Once you reach that moment of clarity, you will understand so much more, you will be way more mature, more intelligent, and far happier than you would have ever been if this situation hadnt presented itself.

That said, I did try to commit suicide, so it's not exactly easy, and you might not survive it. I'm just saying that if you stick it out and get over this huge hurdle, you're pretty much set for years to come.
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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #4 on: October 01, 2009, 02:06:50 AM »
well my high school life has kicked the stuffing out of me because I have low self-esteem.
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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #5 on: October 01, 2009, 02:09:44 AM »
Schools are messed up. That's just fact. Having low self esteem in school is like ordering fries from a fast food place. Almost everyone has low self esteem there.
"Parents always think kids are wasting their youth, and always have done [so] down through the millennia," says Tom Forsyth of RAD Game Tools. "'That Ug, always holding things. His front paws will develop in funny ways. Why can't he walk on all fours like normal proto-hominids?' And so, whatever the kids spend the most time doing, that's always what parents think is a waste of time, and what is corrupting their lives. It doesn't matter what that is. If all they did was homework, parents would be worrying that their kids aren't becoming well-rounded people. And, in fact, parents do this - enrolling math nerds in karate classes and the like. There is no way to win - parental paranoia ensures that kids are always doing the wrong thing."


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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #6 on: October 01, 2009, 02:16:11 AM »
so true AsiaBunny.
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Re: I'm done with my parents.
« Reply #7 on: October 01, 2009, 02:59:09 AM »
People say I have low self esteem, no ambition, no decipline, nothing. My dad always gets upset because he thinks so. I don't think I do. I think I'm fine the way I am. I have good grades, I'm responsible, trustworthy, I get things done (it may not be awesome but it not something I just threw together either). I spend time on things. I like being productive with my time. Everytime my dad sees me, I'm playing videogames or with friends. It will be 9 or 10 at night and thats what he assumes I do ALL THE TIME. It's a load of bs. Don't listen to your parents if they nothing good to say. If you think you're fine just the way you are, thats all you need to be happy with. Don't let people make you believe that you're some worthless lazy bum. That's what got me into the things I shouldn't have. Only you know what's going on in your head and that's the only thing you need to be happy with. You're not a bad guy, Wolfgang, don't let people say otherwise.
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