A mystery I can never figure out and understand

[tundrafox1]

Okay, people are always like "oh I want love, I want some one who'll accept me for who I am and won't cheat on me" etc. I bet ya'll heard that or want that.

Then when they get some one they cheat on them, they play them, they deceive them, they backstab them. Why?

Why can't ya'll just find some one for a relationship instead of sex or using people for sex? Do you know what it's like to be used? It hurts, it scars, it destroys the heart and mind of the individual. You may get one night of pleasure and move on but they'll get many years of fears, scars, regrets, et cetera.

I don't understand. They want and find some one who truly loves and cares for them but yet they don't care.
Yet they wanted that in the first place

WTF People?! lol that's all I have to say lol

[Vosur Aekira]

A sense of loyalty-to-self is a high-wanted desire... but I will agree: to get, you must give. It does take an understanding mind to recover from situations that were to happen, relationships require that both sides understand that both individuals are not perfect.

[Vee Katame: His Wolfy]

Vosur is correct (as he usually is with this Rants and Advice stuff).
Some people just don't understand how they effect people when they do that stuff.
I have said what you quoted and I have that in my relationship. I don't cheat and I love my mate for who he is so not everyone who says it turns their backs on it for themselves.

[Asia Kali Yusufzai]

It's a bizarre trait seen in many, as many just aren't mature or intelligent enough to recognise the importance of words, nor the impact of themselves. In time they may learn, but for now they will stumble.