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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #780 on: August 22, 2015, 11:55:35 PM »
I say that is a very good idea moonwolf I was around my best friend when I came out as furry it was hard for me to because I was new to it and I new I was different but did not know what way. I was also struggling to come out of the closet and be excepted in that way as well. I hope it all works out for you moonwolf and know you have friends on here that are willing to help you in your life.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #781 on: August 23, 2015, 12:01:35 AM »
I say that is a very good idea moonwolf I was around my best friend when I came out as furry it was hard for me to because I was new to it and I new I was different but did not know what way. I was also struggling to come out of the closet and be excepted in that way as well. I hope it all works out for you moonwolf and know you have friends on here that are willing to help you in your life.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #782 on: August 23, 2015, 08:50:22 AM »
You are most welcome hope it all works out
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #783 on: August 25, 2015, 07:15:45 PM »
Once I met another furry at a hookah lounge, and simultaneously found out my best friend liked furry art, it suddenly felt less strange to be a furry. After that I would just put furry art as my background on my phone, and when someone asked about it, I'd just casually be like 'oh yeah its a thing I'm into.' I treated it as just another hobby or fun fact about it. I found the less I acted like it was a big deal, the better the reaction was. My worst reaction was "I know someone that likes that stuff, but to me its just like meh, I don't really get it." It hasn't changed anyone's opinion of me.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #784 on: September 05, 2015, 10:55:54 PM »
I don't like coming out saying to people I'm a furry. I wear accessories and t-shirts to let them guess.
I do the same thing with other things I like, for example MLP. But also depending on the person, I'll answer yes or no.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #785 on: September 21, 2015, 05:21:27 PM »
I just was scrolling through memes on my phone, and up came my fursona. He didn't say he hated it, but he had a kind of omg lol no reaction. I asked him if he didn't like furries, and he said no. Judging from the way he didn't want to explain WHY, I'm guessing that this is another example of how we are completely inaccurately viewed as perverts who love odd mutated animal porn. I blame tumblr.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #786 on: September 21, 2015, 05:23:48 PM »
So I need help with getting my friends to understand what a furry is.

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #787 on: September 21, 2015, 05:24:13 PM »
I just was scrolling through memes on my phone, and up came my fursona. He didn't say he hated it, but he had a kind of omg lol no reaction. I asked him if he didn't like furries, and he said no. Judging from the way he didn't want to explain WHY, I'm guessing that this is another example of how we are completely inaccurately viewed as perverts who love odd mutated animal porn. I blame tumblr.
and 4chan. Don't forget it

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #788 on: September 21, 2015, 05:26:46 PM »
I mean sure, some people like it. That's cool. But don't judge. I mean if different sexualities can watch different kinds of porn without being viewed entirely as that, why can't it exist for us?
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #789 on: September 23, 2015, 08:24:02 PM »
A lot of people in Enlgand just are like:
"Ha, what a knob."
And that is that! I suppose it's better than being continuously harassed and discriminated, instead of that just a one off comment of "What a knob." hehehe...

I mean sure, some people like it. That's cool. But don't judge. I mean if different sexualities can watch different kinds of porn without being viewed entirely as that, why can't it exist for us?

I just was scrolling through memes on my phone, and up came my fursona. He didn't say he hated it, but he had a kind of omg lol no reaction. I asked him if he didn't like furries, and he said no. Judging from the way he didn't want to explain WHY, I'm guessing that this is another example of how we are completely inaccurately viewed as perverts who love odd mutated animal porn. I blame tumblr.
and 4chan. Don't forget it

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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #790 on: September 23, 2015, 08:32:10 PM »
Its going fine here and I'm wearing a tail. Its about as bad as being a nerd in elementary school
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #791 on: September 23, 2015, 08:54:27 PM »
Saasaame bruh
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #792 on: September 23, 2015, 09:44:04 PM »
But I tend to not mind the insults. I'll deck someone if they mess with my friends tho.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #793 on: September 23, 2015, 10:51:11 PM »
Uh... OK thanks.
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Re: Advice: Telling others about being furry
« Reply #794 on: September 25, 2015, 01:48:02 AM »
Bump?
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