If I have to listen to my room mate complain about one more thing or nag either myself or my other room mate to do something, I swear, I'm going to blow my lid. We do equal amounts of work and she likes to pretend as though she's the only one doing anything, when in fact, she does something simple like her laundry or cleans her room and then claps her hands, flops on the couch like she's just done a day's worth of work. But oh dear Jesus, if I don't do the dishes before I go to bed, it's like I made a mess of the place. About 10% of the mess that's made is mine and I know this because I rarely enter the living room for long periods of time BECAUSE most of the time I'm either in my room or in the computer room and I keep both of those areas cleaned.
It's not that I mind doing dishes or vacuuming or whatever, it's that I get to listen to her complain if I don't do it when she asks, as if she's bent over backwards for everyone else. It's fairly toxic to listen to and my other room mate agrees with me. We've asked her plenty of times to tone the dramatics down and she insists on being the "mother" of the house. This is the one of the main reasons as to why I'm hoping to find a place soon. I cannot live with people who insist on bossing me around.