Before I start this rant, so you can hopefully understand my state of mind, keep in mind I am 31.
Okay, so: I have this co-worker who works in the station next to mine. He is 21, is married, and has a 2-year-old son. He is in the process of going through a divorce.
Now I have no problem with divorce, it happens and my parents divorced my senior year of high school. What bugs me though is he spends at least 60% of his shift on his cell phone talking about personal stuff. He will literally call his cable provider/phone provider to work out bill payments while he is at work or answer an ad he saw on Craigslist for a truck that is for sale.
He will also answer calls from his soon-to-be ex-wife and have arguments over the phone with her...WHILE HE IS AT WORK...ON THE CLOCK...IN HIS WORK STATION!!! There have been a couple of times where he has gotten into an argument and spent 30+ minutes outside arguing with this woman, who is 2 years younger than him btw.
It just blows my mind. It has gotten to the point where I spend 7 or so hours of my shift with my headphones plugged into my phone listening to music and podcasts so I don't have to listen to his drama.
He keeps saying how much he can't wait to be divorced and away from this girl, but he wastes money going to the beach (which he did twice last month) and he has gotten back together with his ex-girlfriend. He also comes to work with friggin' hickies on his neck. I am sitting there thinking, "Dude, I have never been in a relationship before, but you have some serious growing up to do."