My brother's obsession with trying to be my parent is driving me absolutely nuts. He acts as if it's his right to know everything that happens in my life, and that he has the right to tell me what to do because "he has a job". There's also the thing where he chases off everyone who so much as looks at me because he doesn't think they're a match for me.
I have the guy I want, what I'm looking for is friends but he seems to think it's impossible for a gay guy to have friends without them getting closer than that. His frequent use of derogatory terms and the shrugging off of "it's just a joke" makes me so irate. He speaks to me like I'm two, insists the only reason I don't have a job is that I'm lazy. I'm on a full time course and the one job I nearly, nearly got was prevented when he rang them up and told them I was unfit for work.
He has no understanding of privacy and thinks it's perfectly okay to invade mine for my "safety". Delusional git even called me a teenager last night. I'm twenty, the mug. I just wish he'd leave me alone, but he either laughs off everything I say or walks away flinging insults saying he doesn't have time for this, or the ever present "ohhh it's a hard life isn't it?". Given everything that's going on, yeah and he isn't making it any easier.
What a goon.