Rants: Everyday Venting

[kalan]

I hate when people tell me just enough in very vague statements about whats going on to make me loose sleep worrying about them, but wont trust me enough to talk to me and tell me whats going on. It makes me realize maybe im trying to hard to be a friend. Or maybe im the problem. Whatever im done worrying about people

[Cecilia Peromi]

You might not be religious Kalan, but for me it helps to pray.

[Rob_Silvermyst]

I hate when people tell me just enough in very vague statements about whats going on to make me loose sleep worrying about them, but wont trust me enough to talk to me and tell me whats going on. It makes me realize maybe im trying to hard to be a friend. Or maybe im the problem. Whatever im done worrying about people

Or maybe it's not that they don't trust you, but they're afraid they might not be taken seriously, or that they don't know how to really tell someone what the problem is because it's embarrassing, scary to them or they just feel very uncomfortable telling someone else. Don't give up on them, try to get them to tell you the full story and be supportive. bring them to a quiet environment where no one can overhear, like a library study room or someplace they feel most comfortable in.

[Cheza]

I have somehow managed to misplace ~600€
It should be here somewhere, but I have absolutely no memory of where.

My laptop bag also seems kinda missing.

[Midnight Madness]

My grandfather needs to stop drinking. Three a day is not good for a man his age. Especially with having been a pack-smoker in his thirties and forties. Hell, wine bottles disappear at night, so I have my doubts he only drinks 2 or three.

[The Past]

There's a certain thread with a massive elephant in it and I've badly wanted to point it out for a good while now, but if I do it will likely start a shit storm. I feel it's important to speak out about it, but I fear it will fall on selective-hearing ears and cause more trouble than it's worth on here.

[Cecilia Peromi]

You're a mod, I'm sure people will respect what you have to say. I do already, because you're nice.

[HyenaKing]

There's a certain thread with a massive elephant in it and I've badly wanted to point it out for a good while now, but if I do it will likely start a shit storm. I feel it's important to speak out about it, but I fear it will fall on selective-hearing ears and cause more trouble than it's worth on here.

I'm pretty confident I know what you're talking about. You can talk to me about it if it bothers you.

[Poli "Lissy" Drax]

I feel that a lot of people can't take cues about not wanting to RP or do interactions of such things, some days. Liiiiittle frustrating, when you get a message with "*noseboops*" every few minutes.


If I didn't reply or register it the first time, chances are, the next six won't work either. Back off, buddy blue.

[Wolxikin]

/\ Buddy Blue reference was not directed to me if any of you were wondering (I think, I don't send noseboops)


OT: School starts tomorrow and I'm really stressed out about it

[Poli "Lissy" Drax]

/\ Buddy Blue reference was not directed to me if any of you were wondering (I think, I don't send noseboops)

Wasn't directed at anyone. It's just a mannerism.

Buddy blue is a variation of "buster brown" and such. Basically just saying "Back off, man". Is that not common in other areas? Is the place I live just weird?

[Angder]

I feel that a lot of people can't take cues about not wanting to RP or do interactions of such things, some days. Liiiiittle frustrating, when you get a message with "*noseboops*" every few minutes.


If I didn't reply or register it the first time, chances are, the next six won't work either. Back off, buddy blue.

I sometimes send such messages (Usually just "*boop*" or "boop") as a way of just saying "I am here/able to talk now" or alternatively "Are you still there?". Very rarely do I *Boop* with the intent of starting any kind of RP interaction((Though sometimes It leads into that due to how the people on the other end of the message respond)). Effectively I use them like smiles.

Then again I assume you know the intents of the people messaging you better than I do. Most people I *boop* know me well enough to know what I mean.


Also I have never heard the term "buddy blue" or the term "buster brown" before

[Poli "Lissy" Drax]

I sometimes send such messages (Usually just "*boop*" or "boop") as a way of just saying "I am here/able to talk now" or alternatively "Are you still there?". Very rarely do I *Boop* with the intent of starting any kind of RP interaction((Though sometimes It leads into that due to how the people on the other end of the message respond)). Effectively I use them like smiles.

Then again I assume you know the intents of the people messaging you better than I do. Most people I *boop* know me well enough to know what I mean.


Also I have never heard the term "buddy blue" or the term "buster brown" before

Perhaps where I come from is just weird, then. Or I am.


Regardless, I'm more than fine with people just *boop*ing for fun, or to start a conversation, but when it's repeated to try and drag some form of affectionate RP out of nowhere, I'm outsies. Not my thing to do with those I don't know truly personally.

[kalan]

Who betrayed you

[Cecilia Peromi]

Was... was it me?