Rants: Everyday Venting

[kalan]

I like the fact that when I butcher a cow from my herd I know my steaks name. Its kinda like a custom made steak that way

OT: people that are pissey with a cashier because they wanna be a dick. I was in the grocery store on my way home from work and the guy in front of me was being a dick to the lady at the register.  Me and the guy behind me wanted to beat him just a little but he looked like the kind of asshole that had a lawyer on speed dial to sue people

[The Past]

There's something important I want to do for myself, but I feel bad because it's such a hassle for both myself and my family.
I feel like I'm screwed up in the head. Maybe I am. But I don't want to drag my family down with me.

[Ræfóa Aldrnari]

I don't live in the US, so I have to stay up super late to chat with my girlfriend ;_;
I still do it, though.

[HyenaKing]

Yeah, I hate people with the,"You dont deserve it, I do" Shit.

[Cecilia Peromi]

Maybe I'm wrong, but perhaps you could've told her about your condition. It IS a disability after all. Or... I don't know... you tell me.

[HyenaKing]

Why would I tell some random dipshit about my condition? If she doesn't respect my rights, she won't respect what I have, or even care, because she's a self-entitled bitch.

You can't be nice in that situation, Cecilia.

[Nrein]

My room mate is my best friend. We're like brothers.

But I can't stand and understand how he and his girlfriend can have 0 income right now, yet be talking about buying over $1000 in electronics that they don't need. I mean. I'm sitting here working full time with my mate paying for the bills by ourselves almost at this point.

As much as I hate to say it is hope my prediction of them moving out soon comes true. At least then I don't have to worry about paying for two extra bodies and their three kids.

[Nazieri]

My room mate is my best friend. We're like brothers.

But I can't stand and understand how he and his girlfriend can have 0 income right now, yet be talking about buying over $1000 in electronics that they don't need. I mean. I'm sitting here working full time with my mate paying for the bills by ourselves almost at this point.

As much as I hate to say it is hope my prediction of them moving out soon comes true. At least then I don't have to worry about paying for two extra bodies and their three kids.

Let's hope that they pick up the pace soon, especially if they have three kids. Best friends or not, he needs to understand the unwritten rules of adulthood. Now, there are some people who genuinely can't work and there are some people who can't find work at all (which is fine) so I hope that he and his girlfriend are at least trying to find something. If not.. If they're sitting around and wishing things on a silver platter, you might have to consider cutting them off. We all want a life of leisure but that's just not how the world works.

[Nrein]

My room mate is my best friend. We're like brothers.

But I can't stand and understand how he and his girlfriend can have 0 income right now, yet be talking about buying over $1000 in electronics that they don't need. I mean. I'm sitting here working full time with my mate paying for the bills by ourselves almost at this point.

As much as I hate to say it is hope my prediction of them moving out soon comes true. At least then I don't have to worry about paying for two extra bodies and their three kids.

Let's hope that they pick up the pace soon, especially if they have three kids. Best friends or not, he needs to understand the unwritten rules of adulthood. Now, there are some people who genuinely can't work and there are some people who can't find work at all (which is fine) so I hope that he and his girlfriend are at least trying to find something. If not.. If they're sitting around and wishing things on a silver platter, you might have to consider cutting them off. We all want a life of leisure but that's just not how the world works.

That's the problem.  Once they had the new baby she became completely lazy and doesn't plan on going back to work,  and from the sounds of things he isn't trying to hard now either

[Trixsie Vixen]

I've been in acute pain for a week now (over and above my chronic pain issues) and it's making me grumpy but also affecting my concentration.  Now I'm feeling super-anxious as well (over and above my normal anxiety issues).


I hate being in pain and being confused and short-tempered with my cubs but I really really hate this stupid anxiety!


UGH!  I know it will pass soon enough, but I just hate it!

[Cecilia Peromi]

A good thing for anxiety is  relaxing. Just take a break, it can be a small one so you're not missing anything. Just take a step back and breathe.

[Nazieri]

That's the problem.  Once they had the new baby she became completely lazy and doesn't plan on going back to work,  and from the sounds of things he isn't trying to hard now either

Sounds like they need a real wake up call. They're parents now, it was their decision to have children and now they have to work so that their kids can have a good life. I know that he's your best friend, but you're going to have to be stern with him. As bad as it may be, don't pay his bills anymore. Don't lend him money, nothing. This is real life and you shouldn't have to spend YOUR hard earned money on them.

[Cecilia Peromi]

I... I just don't know anymore... you guys are great... but now your on my KiK and my Skype and.... I've already been asked to do some uncomfortable things.... I feel so guilty... I don't want to hurt my aunt and every time I post here I do. I used to think this was worth that pain, and that risk. But now..... I just don't know.....

[Rho'Syn Ilwynog]

You got to that side of the fandom... Yeah, that's one of my rules. Never take it to skype. I've never even owned a kik. Keep it on the site and you should be safer. Every fandom has that bell curve outliers of those we don't want to interact with

[Cecilia Peromi]

I guess you're right. Still.... I can't help but think that the more I stay here the more I drift away from my family and non-internet friends. In my early days on the site I would say "I'll stop when it's not fun anymore" and.... I can't help but feel like it's come to that. Balancing my forum time with the rest of my life has become so stressful...