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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1005 on: January 13, 2014, 08:43:24 AM »
I always like a good cry. I honestly don't cry much, but when I do, it feels good. I usually get it from listening to powerful music or diving deep into the psyche of a troubled story character I'm developing or reading about. It releases tension and makes me feel more alive, in a way.

Psychologists actually suggest not to 'have a good cry' if you're upset. It releases endorphins that make you feel better temporarily, but the down afterwards can make you feel slightly more upset. It's interesting, learned this in Psych1A
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1006 on: January 13, 2014, 08:55:27 AM »
I always like a good cry. I honestly don't cry much, but when I do, it feels good. I usually get it from listening to powerful music or diving deep into the psyche of a troubled story character I'm developing or reading about. It releases tension and makes me feel more alive, in a way.

Psychologists actually suggest not to 'have a good cry' if you're upset. It releases endorphins that make you feel better temporarily, but the down afterwards can make you feel slightly more upset. It's interesting, learned this in Psych1A

That's not what I meant. With my examples it should be obvious I meant things that don't make me upset, but stuff that makes me think and brings out emotions. Plus I HIGHLY doubt that's true. That has never happened ever to me after crying when upset. It still always makes me feel better every time, and I don't feel as upset ever again. Holding it back is what causes problems.
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1007 on: January 13, 2014, 08:58:28 AM »
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1008 on: January 13, 2014, 11:50:13 AM »
It's ok to cry because it makes you feel ok for a bit, BUT science does show crying in that way can be bad xD

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2021649/Why-having-good-actually-make-feel-better.html

At the same time though, crying does remove toxins in your body is sometimes a GOOD thing depending on the situation.

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/healthy-living/wellbeing/the-health-benefits-of-crying.htm

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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1009 on: January 13, 2014, 12:53:31 PM »
You also need to think about the fact that crying is often considered weak and pathetic in our culture, so it is likely that people feel humiliated when they cry, especially in front of others. The study focuses on a rather small number of women, and only women. What about men? It would probably be even worse when you take the societal pressure into account.

Also, the article shows no proof that it was the actual crying that made them feel worse, and not simply thinking and overthinking about the issues that lead them to cry in the first place. You normally don't completely forget about a problem after crying. Crying is temporary relief--it was never supposed to be permanent anyway--but I'm sure it doesn't make one's mood worse on its own. Actually fixing the problem or accepting it is the best way to truly be relieved, and that takes a lot of time in many cases.

I'd also bring up the fact that this is written by Dailymail, since I've heard bad things about them, but I suppose that is irrelevant in this case.

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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1010 on: January 15, 2014, 01:21:04 AM »
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1011 on: January 15, 2014, 01:23:13 AM »
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1012 on: January 15, 2014, 01:25:12 AM »



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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1013 on: January 15, 2014, 01:29:52 AM »
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
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Re: Rants: Positive ranting!
« Reply #1017 on: January 15, 2014, 01:34:55 AM »
My brother! He hurts my brain! @.@

I also dumped ice cream on his head! ^_^

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« Reply #1018 on: January 15, 2014, 01:42:39 AM »
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« Reply #1019 on: January 15, 2014, 01:43:50 AM »
And my dog threw up on his feet! I can't move so I don't need to do anything! XD
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