Not wanting to argue about being gay or not, I'll just say some people are more open minded than others. We are bound to our human way of seeing the world, and each person develops a different vision of it. Guided by instinct and the curse of self-awareness, we sometimes derail from what was was meant to be. And then again, who are we to say how things are supposed to be? An open mind is something most of society lacks. In my personal view, rather than being bothered (though sometimes it does get under my skin), I pity those people.