am 18 too, but if you had asked me last year abut if i was thinking to be with someone, i would have say: ''heck no, i don't want to, i feel free, i can see my friends all the time, i don't have to pay for someone else etc'' i was good alone and the idea to be with someone never crossed my mind before, but you, their is always one guy or one girl who likes you and you never know and they tell you about it, and then you're ''hey, thinking 'bout it, she/he sure is cool. i know that person for a while now, i really like her/him'' and then you or the other one ask the other out and... voilà, yo're mate.
well, thats what happens to me ...