pushing parnts

[icy wolf]

hi furrys my mom has been buging me about not haveing a girl friend and asking me when well she see her , it fells like iam been rushed in to a relation ship for some reason i dont fell attracted to any one i don't know if theirs something wrong with it but iam 19 and i have no  mate yet. if you have had this experince befor can you please share some information or even if you haven't but if you can help can you please post.

thanks

icy the wolf

[Puncia]

Completely normal. You just won't settle for the first girl you meet. Tell your mother that you'd rather focus on your school first and let relationships come after?

[icy wolf]

Completely normal. You just won't settle for anyone. Tell your mother that you'd rather focus on your school first and let relationships come after?

thanks my dad says the same thing. i wonder what she would say if i told her that i wasn't str8 i was bi. my sister who is str8 has had a lot of boy friends, ive only had 1 girl friend who didnt last to long my mom only saw her a few times, we never went on a date or anything... (iam propley rambling  there).

[Philly Tanuki]

I'm 18 and I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in finding a mate.  I'm actually not really even attracted guys or girls.  But I believe not wanting a girlfriend or boyfriend is perfectly normal.  I went all through high school without one and my high school life was 100% drama free.  Some people are just better off without a mate.

[icy wolf]

I'm 18 and I have absolutely no interest whatsoever in finding a mate.  I'm actually not really even attracted guys or girls.  But I believe not wanting a girlfriend or boyfriend is perfectly normal.  I went all through high school without one and my high school life was 100% drama free.  Some people are just better off without a mate.

i guess , iam more attracted to girls i told my mom whats wrong with out haveing a mate and she didnt say anything but still pushes me the girlfriend i had in high school was more like a friend so really in high school there was no drama. there is this one girl in my collage but shes a lot older then i though shes in her 30's i though she was around my age so rather then that there no one right now

[Z1FF]

am 18 too, but if you had asked me last year abut if i was thinking to be with someone, i would have say:   ''heck no, i don't want to, i feel free, i can see my friends all the time, i don't have to pay for someone else etc''  i was good alone and the idea to be with someone never crossed my mind before, but you, their is always one guy or one girl who likes you and you never know and they tell you about it, and then you're ''hey, thinking 'bout it, she/he sure is cool. i know that person for a while now, i really like her/him'' and then you or the other one ask the other out and... voilà, yo're mate.

well, thats what happens to me ...

[icy wolf]

thanks that helps

[iKero-chu™]

Sounds like your mother wants to be a grandmother soon or something.

Like Pilose said, its normal.

[icy wolf]

Sounds like your mother wants to be a grandmother soon or something.

Like Pilose said, its normal.

for some resion she has stooped buging me

[Z1FF]

the calm before the...storm?

[icy wolf]

idk maybe shes knows iam to interested in a relation right now

[Z1FF]

well, thats great if she understands you =P