Im starting to hate my life

[TheLazyFur]

Im very sad with my own life, i cant make friends, and I cant really do anything right. Im just hating life right now  :'(

[x]

The reason you feel you never do anything right is usually because you tell yourself that. Even if you screw up, laugh at it! Forget about it! Your destiny keeps rolling on and no-one cares about mistakes. It's all about powering through or fixing the mistakes and smiling about it.

As for making friends, it is hard when you are young. I know all about that, not having friends throughout childhood. But as you get older, in high school usually, people stop being brats and act like themselves...yes there is still bullying and loners but it is more real and less faked. I'm sure you will find people to hang out  with, even I did eventually. You have to approach or be approached to start a friendship, but sometimes it just happens, friends just drift together...and usually this latter random type of friend is the best match for you.

[TheLazyFur]

Thanks Sasha, but I still cant help the feeling that no one wants to come near me because they are afraid of being ridiculed by their friends. Then again, if someone doesnt like me for who I am, they're not friends anyway.

[Ares the Ram]

if someone doesnt like me for who I am, they're not friends anyway.

exactly. *pours some root beer for Neo*  Ive got 2 people that Id call real friends, the rest are just aquaintences.  Youll find people who like you for who you are, I know you will. 

[x]

So true. They are not worth your time if they can't like you for you. You don't need them if they are scared of being ridiculed because of you! You don't need them! Find some real friends. 

[Alexei]

You just have to believe that things will get better, it may seem like life is bleek now but if you don't take action then nothing is going to change.
You're still young, you have a lot of time to make friends, life has a funny way of working itself out in the end and you just have to keep faith in that fact.

[Daemon]

ill be you're friend! . Well, we cant actually meet eachother and hang out, seeing as you live in... Washington, i think, and I live in Michigan. But I can be... facebook buddies? and to all my friends on here as well. ill post my FB later. busy right now.

[MinxKitty]

I'm always looking for new friends *extends paw*..
I'm 19, and i recently realised that I can talk to quite a few people about anything and get their advice.. But no one trusts me enough to confide in me and be a real friend...
I guess life never does change, however, the people around you do!  Give it time, and you will meet new people who will be amazing! People walk in and out of your life all the time, but the important ones will stay forever.. For now, just keep your chin up, and remember that you're better than all the bullies because you have a heart!
If you ever need anything, mail me, im always here for a good rant or cry
MK
xox

[TheLazyFur]

Whenever someone calls me furfag (even though im not gay or bi so im sort of offended) I feel burned up inside 

[MinxKitty]

furfag? thats one i've never heard before :O... some people are so horrid! ... dont let it bother you.. you're not a 'fag'.. and theres nothing wrong with being a fur.. remember, they're only nasty to you because they dont understand it, and because they're unhappy with their own lives!!  you're a furry, you're better than them...  Yes, i said it, furs are better than normal people... mainly because we're such nice and accepting people
xox

[Alexei]

Whenever someone calls me furfag (even though im not gay or bi so im sort of offended) I feel burned up inside 

I just say "Oh wow, you're original" (Sarcastically) whenever someone says that, honestly if they can't think of anything better then that, then they don't even deserve to talk to you.

[MinxKitty]

I agree with Alexei.. however id take it a step further.. if they cant be nice to you they dont deserve to talk to you...  you're better than them.. dont rise to their insults, just ignore them ...
xox

[Rhett (Twister)]

Neo, don't let being called a furfag get to you, if they are calling you gay, just ignore them and get through the day, it might be a little depressing at times but if you ignore all of them and nod and say "yes" i guarantee that they will leave you alone in a week or two.

[TheLazyFur]

Considering everyone I know is a hardcore christian bigot who picks at my music taste and how my face isnt jammed in a Bible evry second. I understand why they hate me.

[MinxKitty]

Religious people dont need to be like that... Stuff them!!  If you really want to get them back, learn your bible in secret, and throw things at them about 'loving thy neighbour', because what they're doing defiantly isnt loving!!!!
:@ people like that annoy me so so much!!!
xox