i can tottaly agree with you on the being used to rejection abuse and betrayal. if it works for you though, keep doing it. everyone functions differently, so you gotta do what works best for you
Thank you for understanding, you're right that it's not good to keep things from your close friends, but I just strangely do it to protect both parties from unnecessary pain. I wish though things were easier and sane, so people wouldn't have to hide things to protect that which they hold dear to them.
But at least I've found this forum... I'd still be screaming trapped in a little box somewhere, without anything to relate to.
It's good to gather with you guys, cuz your good people, even though the world might not be open to furries. But I guess that's the main reason for having a forum in the first place, so we the people can gather and talk like civilized folk and be good friends who help each other out.
And Kaprika, just to let you know, your totally awesome!