What Is Your Sexuality?

[NJMike]

I forgot to explain; in the furdom I can be gray-a or bi with a very strong male preference, but I think gray-a is the most accurate because it means I'm only attracted to certain things. I also think I may be hyposexual making it very difficult to tell what my sexuality is.

I do, however, have a question: if I don't like female or male genitalia, but I like their bodies and/or everything else about them but their genetalia, what would I be? And if I like only gay yiff but dislike solo would I be gay? I actually think I might be describing gray-a in this paragraph though.

I think that's just about a textbook example of gray-A. I'm actually in a similar boat with the genitals thing; I really don't like male or female genitalia (hell, I don't even like seeing a girl's nipple, even though I find cleavage to be incredibly attractive; go figure), but I'm very much attracted to certain parts of both male and female anatomy. I think as far as sexuality goes, it all depends on whether you're still willing to engage in intercourse with another person, regardless of whether or not you like, or are turned on by, their genital area. That's why it's called SEXuality and not GENITALuality (what the hell kinda word...? lol), yeah?

Hope that helps a bit.

I see. Well I didn't mind yiffing on Second Life with my friend who was a male, but I wasn't turned on either and was very aloof about it. And I wouldn't mind doing it with a female either, but I also wouldn't be turned on and I'd also be aloof. That being said, would I be a bi fur? Sometimes I've considered myself bi in the furdom with a very strong male preference, but I stuck with gray-a because I'm a fetishist and that's what keeps my interest on a male or woman. Very rarely do I like them just for their bodies.

[KJOokami]

I think it's actually possible that you're both (bisexual and gray-A, that is). If you're sexually interested in both men and women, enough to engage in intercourse (or yiff, if you'd prefer), I'd generally say that classes you as bisexual. But if you also aren't particularly turned on by either, or don't really find terribly much interest in them beyond your own specific fetishes, then that also lands you in the gray-A.

So, perhaps a bisexual fetishist would be most accurate?

[NJMike]

I think it's actually possible that you're both (bisexual and gray-A, that is). If you're sexually interested in both men and women, enough to engage in intercourse (or yiff, if you'd prefer), I'd generally say that classes you as bisexual. But if you also aren't particularly turned on by either, or don't really find terribly much interest in them beyond your own specific fetishes, then that also lands you in the gray-A.

So, perhaps a bisexual fetishist would be most accurate?

Mhmm I could take that, if I can be both that is.

[KJOokami]

Mhmm I could take that, if I can be both that is.

Well, alright then! I dub thee: Shakat, Bisexual Fetishist of The Furry Forum.

Lol.

[NJMike]

I think it's actually possible that you're both (bisexual and gray-A, that is). If you're sexually interested in both men and women, enough to engage in intercourse (or yiff, if you'd prefer), I'd generally say that classes you as bisexual. But if you also aren't particularly turned on by either, or don't really find terribly much interest in them beyond your own specific fetishes, then that also lands you in the gray-A.

So, perhaps a bisexual fetishist would be most accurate?

I'm not really into yiff that much, though.

[KJOokami]

I'm not really into yiff that much, though.

Ah, that's fine. I only mentioned it because you had brought up that you'd done some yiffing on SecondLife and I wasn't sure which you were more into.

[NJMike]

I'm not really into yiff that much, though.

Ah, that's fine. I only mentioned it because you had brought up that you'd done some yiffing on SecondLife and I wasn't sure which you were more into.

The only reason I yiffed in Second Life was to test my sexuality; I wanted to figure out my sexuality. But if I wasn't aroused by the gay yiff I had with my friend there then I guess gay is out of the question, but I do still like male furries for their bodies, I'm just not that all into yiff (art) (but I do like gay yiff art somewhat, even if it may be on a very small scale). But that doesn't really change anything, does it? If I don't really get anything out of porn but instead out of clean art?

[WingedZephyr]

Please remember that this forum is PG-13 outside of the Adult Area. I'd prefer yiffing and such be kept out of the conversation.

[NJMike]

Please remember that this forum is PG-13 outside of the Adult Area. I'd prefer yiffing and such be kept out of the conversation.

Sorry, sorry. I did kind of figure it might've been un-PG-13 but I wasn't 100%-sure just went ahead and posted anyway.

I'm such a noob; this is like the fifth time I got accosted by you. >_<

[KJOokami]

Please remember that this forum is PG-13 outside of the Adult Area. I'd prefer yiffing and such be kept out of the conversation.

Apologies. I just figured since this topic is about sexuality, it was implied there'd be more mature themes involved. I'll be sure to be more aware of it in the future. :]

[NJMike]

Please remember that this forum is PG-13 outside of the Adult Area. I'd prefer yiffing and such be kept out of the conversation.

Apologies. I just figured since this topic is about sexuality, it was implied there'd be more mature themes involved. I'll be sure to be more aware of it in the future. :]

Yeah that's what I thought?

[WingedZephyr]

If you have questions about it, feel free to ask me via PM, so the thread can stay on topic.

[Renamon]

I voted pansexual!

Well, I kind of used to be in denial about who I was, both gender and sexually; I learned to accept the transgendered nature of me on my own (MtF), and I am focused on starting transition as soon as possible.
That said, I meet someone and fell in love!!! I think it was destiny! And, are you ready? WE MET AT AN ANIME CONVENTION!!!
I stood there and thought; "wow, that's a good looking crossplayer" (as it seems the trans people have a kind of radar for this), and since I am still technically a crossplayer, I went an talked to her. And by her I mean another pre-transition transgendered person (MtF)!

I feel like we have a bond that is much, much deeper than anything physical, like we share the same Soul. I feel like I understand her so completely. I just want her to hold me tight and never let go... I owe her so much, she taught me to be OK with whatever I end up being. I just find myself wanting her, like that longing one only has when they are in love. And when we kiss and touch, it just feels like pure ecstasy!!!!!!!

So, that it why I say pansexual, as it seems that I am attracted to some people as long as they look female enough. So, when I am a woman (on the outside as well as the inside), I think I will be pansexual with a big lean toward women, even if that woman has a...

[AlphaArexis]

I am lesbian =] and so very proud. Nothing more beautiful than a woman, but i appreciate all types of love.

[Kaprika]

i recently realized that im not just bisexual...im pansexual