Well I did not know exactly what you just asked but heres my clue answers.
1 IRL I simply get told what ta do, and cuddle, and follow, also be there as a friend and confort them
2 If im the master I Spoile my pets, but lately I havnt been doing my master duty, but now im actually ready ready, and have good time to do so.
3 I also let my pets choose, and stuff