ill admit to using the phrase "thats gay"
but i myself dont intend it to be hurtful, im pansexual myself..ive had girlfriends and boyfriends...i fight all the time for gay rights, i even draw gay pride art from time to time. but i think that the word gay has over the years gotten LOTS of definitions.
its like when you say gay it means homosexual...if i said, "hey your gay" im not telling you that your happy...im saying it in the definition that your homosexual.
so when i say "oh my gosh, that was gay" im saying gay in the definition of bad, sucks, terrible. and not in the definition of homosexual.
i can SEE where the argument lies, but i myself take no offense to it..so i see no offence in using it.
with the age of freedom and equality..comes ALL types looking for there peice of the equality pie. blacks got it..women got it...disabled people got it...religious groups got it (sorta?) and now homosexuals want it.
thing is, with each group..it was a looooong draaawn out fight. and it was never easy. even with all the advancing in our rights, people still slip through the cracks.
this comes into the right to marry and adopt..nobody wants to surender that right to us "lesser" people...thinking that we cant do it, or that were "strange" and shouldnt be put in charge of and raise a child with our wierdness..
its unfortunate..and in some states its worse than others, but all we can do is do out part and be tolerant of others. in ALL aspects.
and do your best, to enlighten others