^Not a fan of nylon collars myself (just hating the feel of the material. I've tried a few, but the only one I can stand of the ones I have is the one with a LED-strip in it).
But I'm happy that you're happy, ofc ^^
And yeah, sadly people tend to be a little too quick to get weird ideas about this, but at the same time it's kinda hard to blame them, too.
But for most of the time, people luckily don't seem to care all that much (if) at all, unless you actively try to call attention to the fact that you're wearing a collar or something.
As for me, it's been a while since I last got a new collar.
Seeing as I already have a decent bunch of them, it's getting increasingly harder for me to find ones that really stand out to me.
But during NFC, I decided to do this:
Spoiler for pictures :
I attached my amulet of Mara to my steampunk-y collar, and at least to me, they look pretty neat together.
Plus, now I get that sweet sweet 10% magicka discount on restoration magic wherever I go!
Hurr-durr Skyrim references.
Closer view of the amulet. Really beautifully made.
And a picture of me wearing it. Still trying to decide on wether I should try to come up with a better way to attach it, but for now this will do just fine.