The only reason I am personally annoyed with Skyrim is because it isnt out in the UK yet which sucks, mainly because Like kite said, I love morrowind and oblivion, Bethesda games in general really. But at the end of the day, people cant be expected to be online all day every day, people will soon give up on the game (More the likely when they have completed it a few times) and then they will be back on the scene, in a way this is being kinda self as it is making it seem like you want them to give you all their attention when your online, Fluff, When i go on the IRC I find myself on it for 2-3 hours before it livens up, even then half the time im left talking to myself, but I try join in when it livens up, if not, I try and start some conversation by randomly saying some things.
What im getting at is you cant expect people to give you all their attention all the time, they do have other things to do in life, whether it be work, school, homework, video games or out with friends/family. You just have to be patient and wait for the Skyrim and MW3 fad to die down as like kite said again, people have been waiting for these games to come out as they are linked to another game they like.