Well when you put it that way, I see that I was judging people's reactions to it completely wrong. I will say that I am very dissapointed with the plot holes, lack of closure, and the fact that I don't get to see the army of Elcor storming through London. That all would have been great to see and I completely agree that if that's what people are blaming the horrible ending on, then yes.
I think I was just caught up believing that everyone was pissed about the ending because of Shepard dying no matter what and only being given three choices as to how to set the universe right. Like any stuck up movie critic I was stuck analyzing the meaning of the ending rather than actually paying attention to the things that were actually wrong.
With that said, I still stand by my statement that the actual message of the ending was a good one. That organics (humans or what not) are naturally a source of chaos. We go to war with eachother, we kill, we steal, we rape and pillage, so on and so forth. To an artificial intelligence, we are too dangerous to be kept alive for too long. So this "god child" is the balancing force of the galaxy. The fact that Shepard met the child showed that there is hope in organic life, but no matter what, the cycle must continue. So as much as I would have loved to see the renegade option where you tell the kid to screw off (They should have put that in there) you still need to be reminded of the mortality of organics. That we can't live with a certain God complex and, in a sense, need to be purged to allow room for the less advanced to live their own way.
So that's my take on the ending. I completely understand that the writers done f-ed up with multiple other things, and I take back what I said about not wanting a new ending. Although I absolutely despise DLC. Thoughts?