Well! Something I can relate to. Let me start out by saying that there are no right or wrong answers under these circumstances. Sure, assumptions can be made, but its difficult to account for every situation.I don't think
anyone can really say that they've come to a concrete conclusion as to their own therianthropic identity, as it is a very difficult matter to discuss. I myself have gone between believing that I am a wolf, dragon, or a fox. I'm still not sure, though I tend to cling to the identity of a "kitsune", as my small-ish brain can justify this quite easily. From what I've heard though, through stumbling across many an article about therianthropy, is that there is an entire "awakening" process that can take anywhere from an instant to an eternity to happen. During this time though, its said that one experiences much confusion and will ultimately discover their own identity. So, if you already feel that you're not human, then the process should be underway, right? Well, who knows. There are some fairly important concepts to grasp though, as far as I've experienced:
A ) It's quite possible that you are in fact human. Think about it... there are thousands of people out there who claim to be "inhuman" in one fashion or another. What are the chances that they're all partly animal?... I'm just saying that claiming there is "no way" that you're human is a bit of a stretch. Trust me, you'll be better off if you accept this as a possibility.
B ) Never take it too seriously. Sure, this may be a very important matter, as it could define you as a "person", but, if you take it too seriously, you could end up driving yourself insane.
C ) There is no ultimate authority. What I've written here is pure testimony, and in no way do I claim it to be truth! Just the same, all that you'll here of Therianthropy will be pure testimony. Your experience may differ entirely from another, henceforth making their experiences inapplicable to your situation.
This stuff can get pretty confusing, so I'm hoping that you'll at least consider some of the above.
Next, if I may extend this post to a further detestable length, furries are an even more touchy subject, as it is a massive culture, inhabited by many different "breeds" (aforementioned). The root of the culture though, in my opinion, is simply an appreciation for anthropomorphic arts. So, whatever connotation people give to "appreciation" is their own personal business. And who's to say that they can help it? Haven't you heard of the whole nature versus nurture argument? They were made as they are, and many of them can't change that. Because of this, I fully endorse the "to each his own", as it promotes tolerance of the less admirable traits found in any society, and helps you to, well, tolerate them.
So, in conclusion, its crucial to keep an open-mind if you are too try and understand who not only you are, but who these masses of fluff are who inhabit the dark recesses of the internet. I may have given you more than you needed, but hey, I like talking
Oh, and, since I like talking so much, you can hit me up any time. I'm more than willing to share my experiences and further advice.
Thanks for reading!