Ask and Answer

[kivabunny]

ummmm harvest sounds more fun,though i havenot the slightest clue as to what it is you speak of.


what is the meaning of this constant suffering we must endure, this thing most call life, yet is only torture in mine eyes?

[Midnight Madness]

The meaning of all this is that life is unfair; and that is simply the truth. It is not that we shall be denied no matter where we turn, but it is that when we are given a trial that we fight through it and never give up who we are, or what we dream. When things take a turn for the worst, it is up to us whether or not the situation is rectified; and that may be by doing something completely opposed to what we had been. Look at what happened to me before I got with Zaelis. I was cheated and lied to twice in the same week by the woman I thought I loved, and she did not believe she had anything to apologize for; I thought she was the one for me, but there it was, plain as day, that she was just the opposite. I was so beyond devastation, beyond heartbreak and my life seemed over. But, I came to understand it was far from over; I am still young, and I have so much life ahead of me, I may just find another woman who makes me happier than Gabby.

How correct I was. And so, from that, I learned a lot about why life is the way it is; and I have come to understand we must only roll with the punches and persevere; because if we don't, nobody is going to do it for us.

Is that a reasonable answer?

[kivabunny]

seems so
but why is it that i feel like i have a curse, like if there is a god he is saying "screw you", every thing i try to do to help, since the begining of the year, EVERYTHING i have done to help has only caused pain, hurt, and suffering what am i doing wrong?

[Midnight Madness]

It is not that you are doing anything wrong, as I'm sure what you're worrying about is something beyond your control. Life is far from perfect, but that does not mean we should discontinue fighting for it. As even while it may be painful, and seem like pointless suffering; the question is, why let it be that? Even when it seems the world is against us, we must always fight for ourselves. If nobody else seems to offer, one must reconcile themselves before others will open up to offering their efforts. So, we must help ourselves before anyone can help us. Lamenting on the misery continually will only make it worse, and life will seem pointless, painful even. We must move past what ails us, even if it is continual, and be stronger than the pain; and it only takes the will for happiness. If you continue to fight for your life, what you seek shall soon come to you. When it is time, you will know; so fight, fight, fight and never give up. You're your own hero, because even if it seems like everything is your fault, it's up to you to fix it. If you give up, things will only become worse.

Do you feel any better? *if the next person to answer is whitewolf*

*and this question is for those who are not* Have you any advice for our friend?

[kivabunny]

i wish i could say yes, but i almost killed my brother by trying to help him


why isit i hurt when i try to help?

[Midnight Madness]

Because accidents, no matter how light or severe, do happen; and an accident is something where we could not prevent its occurrence. And even if you feel it is your fault it happened, all you can do is try to work it out; if you apologize, and they truly care while you are extremely sincere, they shall forgive you with time.

For Whitewolf: Have you apologized?

For others: Have you had any situations in which you thought giving up was your only option?

[Beatnory]

yes I have.

is there is little thing that you enjoy a lot? (like coffee, drawing, music)

[anoni]

Music and a compliment here and there

What's your favourite artist?

[Beatnory]

in music? gorillaz.

most used program on your computer?

[anoni]

Windows... xD

Probably steam in all seriousness


What's your favourite instrument?

[Bandal]

Hmm either piano or tenor sax I really can't decide
Do you enjoy travel

[Beatnory]

I love to be somewhere new but I hate travel. it's nothing more then waiting.

is there a question that you did ask to your self?

[Bayzan]

Yes...

Have you ever had an epic fail turn into a epic win?

[Cephalotes]

Yes.
Is it over 9000?

[Beatnory]

yes

what is the best joke ever?