I just ordered a hat from PawStar yesterday. It'll be interesting when it arrives - my mom asked me about my tail twice yesterday. If she asked again, I'll tell her.
Also, I'm thinking about getting a collar, possibly from the collar factory. I've got a neat pendant that can double as a tag, and of course, my dogtags.
Personally, I have no problem with wearing my stuff out in public - people judge each-other all the time. So, if they're gonna judge me, I say "let them judge the real me". Besides, like 99% of the time, you won't see the people you see in a single day ever again - that knowledge helps me when I get all self conscious. I suppose everyone has their different reasons for wearing tails, ears, collars, ect. I wear mine to identify myself as a furry and so other furries can take notice, and because I find the stares and odd looks kinda fun. I wouldn't say I have "furry pride" - I have something along the lines of "furry neutrality". I'm not yelling out "Hey, Imma furreh! Look at me!", nor am I ashamed and try to hide it. I just be myself and let people deal with it.