Sexuality

[sigols]

I am 15 years old, and have never really felt love. There is a lot of homosexuals in the furry community and that is reflected in the furry art, both in clean and yiff art there is a lot of male on male.
I first thought that I was straight, that I liked the opposite gender, but after I became a furry I have become a little unsure. I have started to like the male furry art, like this: http://s1008.photobucket.com/user/sigurdols/media/http3A2F2Fimagescaletumblrcom2Fimage2F12802F438a91e26e5ecc0cb1a779c39560940c2Ftumblr_msk50t8fKi1rlwhbxo10_zps49bafa31.jpg.html?sort=3&o=1 (This is clean art, no pornography)
I like a lot of females in a sexual way, I feel atracted to the female body like nice curves, boobs, etc. But I have started to feel atracted to more "manly" bodyes, like sixpack, muscles, etc.


A bit more sexual part here, but I try to keep it clean 


I like the female genitlia, but I also want to be a straight girl. I want to be a female and have sex with a male.
Am I bisexual? Please I need some advices from someone that have experience in life and love.

[anoni]

If you want to be a female chances are you could possibly be a transgender person

[sigols]

I have not thought of that, but I don`t think I will change my gender. Drag... I don`t think I will dress up as a women, but well, there is a chance. Im not sure.
Thanks for the anwer 

[Ventus Fall]

Transgender doesn't mean you are someone that needs to change gender. You got something called the mental gender and physical gender.
For example: You can be a girl physically, but mentally come to the acceptance you are gender-mentally more a guy. Thus accepting you are mentally a guy, but physically a girl. It is possible. Doesn't mean you have to change gender physically in order to feel secure or better.
Some people want a sex-change, or need it. Some people (for different various reasons) need to actually change genders. But being transgender doesn't necessarily mean you have to undergo a gender-operation.

Hope this helped.

[sigols]

Thanks a lot! That really helped Ventus   A lot of pieces came in the right places now, I didn`t even know there was something like that. I feel a lot better now having at least a clue of what I am.

[Deleted Profile]

Before this thread closes, if it ever does, I just wanna say that this also helped me and possibly a few other people. I also think it'd be a good idea to stick this thread.

[George]

If all you need is a new pronoun set, look at this: There are S0 MANY!!! I must confess, I'm not sure what a lot of these refer to... H0Wever, it just puts in perspective how not true it is there is only  "he" and "she".

[Ventus Fall]

Thanks a lot! That really helped Ventus   A lot of pieces came in the right places now, I didn`t even know there was something like that. I feel a lot better now having at least a clue of what I am.

No problem
I myself didn't know about this until about half a year ago. I read a book (still reading it), which really helped me. It's a shame it isn't in English, but maybe if more people are interested I am willing to do a free translation thread here on the forums
One paragraph or so every week translated.
If there are enough people here that want that and keep reading it, I would like to do so

[sigols]

I would really like to read a book like that, but if im the only one there is no need to do so. Transalating is its own art, and its a pretty hard one too. And by the way, what language is it in?

[Ventus Fall]

It's in Dutch, but I'm basically already verbally translating it to my mate x3
And I don't think you'd be the only one, but I just want to make sure I won't be doing it for only one person to read. If that makes sense?

[sigols]

I understand that translating a book for only one person is a bit of a timewaster. I hope there are more people out there that are eager to read a book like that.
Where is the writer from, if he is international I might find it in english or norwegian. 

[Ventus Fall]

The writer is from Holland ^^;

[sigols]

Then I doubt im able to find it in english    But if you for some reason stumble over it in english, please let me know. 

[Ventus Fall]

Sure, will do.
And like I said, if more than one person shows interest in me translating it, I'd be happy and more willingly to do so then x3
(Get people to respond to this thread, hint, hint )

[Friday]

Don't worry so much about labels. There are as many sexual preferences as there are people; it's part of what makes us unique. It's good to be able to generalize what you like as well as express it verbally, and that's really all you should need to do. If anyone gets mad at you because you don't feel straight, gay, or bi, that's their trouble. Same with your gender identity.