I tend to not really be so "Ben". even though i do work out and do manly stuff, i do not have a manly personality. i squeal when i am scared, and the last time i got jump-scared by a game i tried to wave the scare away from my face and nearly broke the keyboard. As you can read here, looks can be deceiving. I always find it hilarious when people date me, they see me as a He-man, and boy, are they wrong!
Now, for the stuff you Need to know...
I Treat everyone equal, even though have a photographic memory, making me more easy to judge by looks. Give me a earful if i tend to be judgmental. If i have a problem, or someone else has one, and i have a way to fix it, i try to find out and fix as much as possible. most of the time though, i will be joke-some, and try to make a joke out of lots of things (^the stuff up there^)