Now I feel like ranting about boyfriends/relationships/whatever.
Instead of just sitting there, being all "Yay, I haz girlfriend :D But I'm not happy D: Better keep my mouth shut about that until it makes me depressed to the point the whole thing crumbles apart beyond saving!! :D"
SPEAK UP, talk through what pains you, demand changes and/or call it quits. People can't read minds and just sitting there quietly hoping for some random miracle to happen isn't going to make things any better. Especially not online where it's impossible to tell how a person is really feeling when you can't see them. Communication. Is. The. Key.
In fact, all my relationships have ended with "I haven't been happy with this for almost half the time we've been together"
I can only do so much when people won't tell me what's wrong before it's way too late to try and do anything about anything.
And losing close friends because of love is getting old.
*Inb4Friendzone™andstuff*