Sexuality Poll 2015

[Alonzorion]

Err... so you're saying I don't like people at all?

[Angder]

Erm, no Wyte, your wrong.

For example, as an Asexual, I KNOW that nothing interests me, I don't feel anything sexual towards anyone.

Someone who is questioning might feel things for various people but be unsure how to interpret those thoughts.


What your saying is like saying a man who is Bi, and goes out with a women, is effectively straight.

[Alonzorion]

^ I used to feel the same way as him, then I thought I liked guys, then I realised I might like girls, then I felt like I wanted to be alone again, then I met a girl I really liked, then a guy, and so on and so fourth, hence, confused. .-.

[anoni]

Sexuality is invisible.

It's not defined by the person you are with right now, for example if you're dating a woman, but are also attracted to men, you are not straight within that instance, you are bisexual still. Sexuality is based on who you are attracted to, now who you are with, so it's invisible, just because someone is dating a man or a woman does not make them straight or gay.

I think there is a difference between "not being attracted by the idea of sex" and "Not being attracted to anything at all". There's a lot of things people could be attracted to that aren't sex with another male/female/etc xD

[Goblin Cat 😸]

I ID as ace. Also I'm going to side with the fact that asexual is not the same as questioning.

[★Amethyst★]

Yeah, questioning is...questioning 

I went through that myself. First I thought I was asexual, then figured no, maybe I was just straight before not caring for awhile and calling myself "label-free". Then I started thinking about it more seriously and realized I was most likely bi.

[Silentium Potens]

I think most people go through some sort of phase where they strongly question their sexuality.  I go through brief fits of it occasionally, but I end back at the same spot; I'm a straight person through and through.  I would recommend long and hard contemplation, at least to help ease the confusion.  Like, actually envision yourself in a relationship with different people, and question whether it could work out or not.

[Alonzorion]

I've been going through this phase for about 12 years lol!

[Goblin Cat 😸]

I've been going through this phase for about 12 years lol!

And that's completely valid. Sexuality is fluid.

[Oathsworn18]

When I answered this question using my first account here (Colioli4, which I sadly cannot retrieve thanks to a mail hack) I was positive I was heterosexual. This, however, has changed in the past year, in which I fell in love with someone of the same gender. I was very confused at first and spent a considerable time in this state until I came to a conclusion: as I still am attracted to people from the other gender as well, I can say that I now identify as Bisexual. I came out of the closet (I guess that term applies to bisexuality as well) a few months back and thus far everyone has reacted really well to the fact. Hell I'm glad to live in the Netherlands! 

Life can be interesting, huh? 

[Alonzorion]

That's cool, I think everyone is at least a little bisexual.

[Oathsworn18]

Haha might very well be. Although I do think that with many people there is a difference between being Bi-curious and Bisexual. Well, even so, sexual identity is fluid. It might very well be that everyone is a little bit of everything, but I wouldn't know. 

[anoni]

I generally believe in the Kinsey scale, not as a full proof model that entirely reflects reality, but as a convenient way to classify ones sexuality.

[Uruvion]

I entered my info on the Kinsey scale..... and I broke it



I am Straight, though.

[HollowOfHaze]

The majority of the time I like girls, but around that-time-of-month, I like guys .-.
It's really annoying.
I usually just say I'm gay (female).

I can imagine that would definitely be a strange dilemma.