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Offline ENOJI Kengura

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Losing my head
« on: November 09, 2015, 04:16:42 PM »
I am feeling like i cant trust anyone.. i mean its not like i feel like i get listened too. what i mean by that is that people DO listen to me on here.. but i want a shoulder to cry on, literally. I hold in so much pain, that even when i tell people about it, it creates more pain because i try not to cry. or i have no one to help me when im crying... I am even considering leaving this site and every site i am apart off... this probably wont happen but i just am lost right now.. even now, more and more pain is being stored in my head...i want to actually be happy for once.
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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #1 on: November 09, 2015, 04:35:34 PM »
I always cried alone in my bed and it worked every time

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #2 on: November 09, 2015, 04:38:42 PM »
well, sometimes, that doesnt really work out for me, i sometimes lose the time to do that.
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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #3 on: November 09, 2015, 06:11:16 PM »
crying won't solve the problem. Sorry for being that honest with you

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #4 on: November 09, 2015, 06:28:33 PM »
crying won't solve the problem. Sorry for being that honest with you

That's true, but crying can help just a tiny bit. It certainly won't solve the problem. I'll give you that.

To Enoji,

I'll go ahead and tell you that you can't trust anyone. People really don't care about your feelings, and they will do anything to you. The moment you think you can trust someone, they cut your liver out, leaving you in a pool of blood. There's always people out there that will try to take your crown, and try to slay you. It's just the way of the world. I will say that you just need to move on and stay strong. It's one of those things that you really can't change.

I don't mean to be so crude. It's just how I feel about it.
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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #5 on: November 09, 2015, 06:54:29 PM »
nah, Vinny. Don't be that cynical. As Charlie Chaplin once said: We all want to help one another. Human beings are like that. We want to live by each other’s happiness, not by each other’s misery. But greed has poisoned men’s souls, has barricaded the world with hate.


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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #6 on: November 09, 2015, 06:57:00 PM »
crying won't solve the problem. Sorry for being that honest with you

But it helps to stabilise emotionally, to stress out, which can help with solving the problem.

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #7 on: November 09, 2015, 07:07:00 PM »

But it helps to stabilise emotionally, to stress out, which can help with solving the problem.

I'm not denying that, but you shouldn't be crying all the time in the first place. It's bad and unhealthy.

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #8 on: November 09, 2015, 07:10:38 PM »
Guys please try not to argue..
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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #9 on: November 09, 2015, 07:12:12 PM »
Guys please try not to argue..

+1 for this

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #10 on: November 09, 2015, 07:33:21 PM »
If you need to cry, let it out. If you're having alot of trouble and feeling really depressed have you tried talking to a family member or maybe a doctor? A school/college counselor perhaps?

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #11 on: November 09, 2015, 07:38:03 PM »
*huggles* Eat Snickers for hours. Chocolate and ice cream of all types makes everything better.



I wanna help. Oh, look up KrayZ Gaming, or Kray_ZGaming on Twitch/YouTube.

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #12 on: November 09, 2015, 10:02:48 PM »
What's the problem though?  Do you understand why you're in pain, or why you feel the way you do?

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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #13 on: November 09, 2015, 11:48:36 PM »
There's no shame in crying. If you have to let it out then let it out. What's unhealthy is keeping it all bottled up.
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Re: Losing my head
« Reply #14 on: November 12, 2015, 09:17:40 AM »
What's the problem though?  Do you understand why you're in pain, or why you feel the way you do?

It really would help others help you help yourself if you explain the problem, Enoji.

 

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