Relationships?

[Silaluk]

I think I'm just happier on my own, regardless. It's not very easy to forgive and forget those things.

[★Amethyst★]

Maybe I'm biased because I've known many sweet guys, and also some annoying women. For me, I don't believe that gender is related to a person's morality. They can use it to the detriment of others of course, but that's up to the person's own volition. That's just my perspective.

As for love itself.. For awhile I didn't care about being in a relationship. I like romance in fiction and stuff, but didn't think too much about having it. Part of that may be that I didn't have many friends to begin with that a romantic relationship was even more unthinkable, or that I was unsure if anyone would like me anyway. I do get a kind of "attraction" for certain people. Maybe it's just that I find them good looking, or something deeper that draws me to them. I don't think I can call that love since, well, I'd have to get to know them and see if I indeed have feelings for them to call it love.

My current relationship(I guess it's one) kinda happened by chance/coincidence. In this case I felt that attraction, but admittedly didn't act on it directly at first because I had no idea if the other person felt the same or even knew about me(I'm shy alright?). Turns out they felt the same exact way..

[Crest Is Dead ((For Now))]

I know that all men aren't the same, but they all have the same capability to hurt me or other women in the same way that my father and another man did.

Yes and in that said regard every woman has thag capability to hurt me. It's more of you need to trust your partner. I'm not saying I will be easy I'm saying you need to,

[SadDubwool]

Ehhhhh, I never could have a crush when I was ¨with someone¨, i find it even harder at this point in my life


I might eventually get the feeling of love, but that will happen in the distant future.

[Silaluk]

If you just broke up with someone then I wouldn't advise starting anything now, even if you can't find someone.


I know from other peoples' experiences, it's always better to take a break for a while. Take some time for yourself.

[Styxx Von Doom]

In all honesty I don't need one, hell I may become single as it stands, and people will always say "but you need love in your life." My reply would simply be thin : Then get a dog. You can love them as much as you want, we as human are "broken" if we don't rely on someone else, emotionally. They even say you need so and so many hugs per day to survive. Its all a bunch if weakness talk. All it takes is some simple logical  thought. And Tada.

[Cecilia Peromi]

....I like hugs... I wish I had someone to hug. Maybe someday.

[MustardHusky]

I was once in a relationship with a guy that lasted two days.
he asked me out Friday night, we didn't contact each other at all on the weekend, and I dumped him Sunday night.

I never liked him tbqh.

[HyenaKing]

OKay, get this.
I understand how you've experienced how MEEEEAN people really can get.
Anywho, i've seen it with both genders, and I care not? Yes, it's horrible what one can do to another.  No, im not going to assume every person will be like that.
There's a difference between what people are physically capable to do and morally capable of doing.
For example, i'm perfectly capable of lying down some serious hurt. In all honesty? I could'nt even if I had to. I'm not an abusive sack of shit even if I am a guy, and perfectly physically capable.
Anyhow.
Mustard that's kinda funny. Thats basically how relationships works in those years of school. x3

[mclovin]

I would like to be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship but it's just that uncertainty about what would happen that turns me away.

Right now, I'm more focused on fixing my older sister and I relationship. I think it's best for me to realize that having a boyfriend probably wouldn't give me that much happiness.

[Cecilia Peromi]

I'm gonna go right out and say it. I want to be taken care of, I want a guy (or gal) to be the one who does stuff while I do other stuff. That's what I want.

[mclovin]

I'm gonna go right out and say it. I want to be taken care of, I want a guy (or gal) to be the one who does stuff while I do other stuff. That's what I want.

That's exactly how I think sometimes! I want to be taken care of and I want to feel safe but sometimes you don't need a boyfriend (or girlfriend) for that. Sometimes all you need is a close relationship with a family member or friend.

I remembered all I wanted was a guy to make me happy and that a guy will be the only thing that made me happy, but I guess I kinda realized it's really a 50/50 thing and that no one is that perfect. Relationships are kinda difficult,  people are difficult. It's...... uh, complicated.

[Silaluk]

I'd probably be the "protecting" one in the relationship. I have tendency to sort of watch over people before I actually talk to them. Not in a stalking way, but just keeping an eye on them. Especially women. Not in a romantic sense though.


Speaking of women, I can't tell if I'm bisexual or what. I'm attracted to the female body but not women themselves.

[★Amethyst★]

I'd probably be the "protecting" one in the relationship. I have tendency to sort of watch over people before I actually talk to them. Not in a stalking way, but just keeping an eye on them. Especially women. Not in a romantic sense though.


Speaking of women, I can't tell if I'm bisexual or what. I'm attracted to the female body but not women themselves.

I like to be cared for and to know that the other person will always be there for me, but I've also spent a lot of time maintaining/protecting myself so I don't need constant fawning or maintenance. If anything, I've noticed that with the relationship I'm kind of in right now I kind of want to feel like a knight, or at least care about them a lot. It doesn't hurt that they sometimes remind me of an adorable cat ^^'

I'm 99% certain I'm at least biromantic myself, if not bisexual, since I do get attracted to some women; though I've never tried to make any moves//flirt with any(not much with guys either tbh).

[Proto Triose]

Relationships are extremely tricky. I want that someone I can be with and be happy with, take care of and share my life with. But I've just kind of given up on finding that; that's not to say I won't keep an eye out for my mate, but I just don't have much hope anymore. I think, in my opinion, a true and happy relationship is a best friend with benefits.

I think love will find you when you're not really looking for it. In the mean time, make the most of what time you have! Everyone finds someone to be with, eventually. *hugs Ceci* I'll give you virtual hugs and cuddles any time you need them, mousey!