Relationships?

[Makias]

Relationships are extremely tricky. I want that someone I can be with and be happy with, take care of and share my life with. But I've just kind of given up on finding that; that's not to say I won't keep an eye out for my mate, but I just don't have much hope anymore. I think, in my opinion, a true and happy relationship is a best friend with benefits.

I think love will find you when you're not really looking for it. In the mean time, make the most of what time you have! Everyone finds someone to be with, eventually. *hugs Ceci* I'll give you virtual hugs and cuddles any time you need them, mousey!

Well said

[PossumDeMort]

just keep open and you'll find the right someone, as soon as you close yourself off it becomes that much harder.

[Sub-Zero Knight]

I've been in one for... eh.... about 3 months. I had one before then that lasted about 7 months, but I dumped him because he acted like a 2 year old and treated me and my friends like crap. xP

[Farewell]

@Silaluk. Yea same here, it's odd.
My last/first relationship wasn't that great to be honest but again I was immature and didn't think it through, lastly was online.. So it didn't work out and I gave far too many chances and tried to keep things together, and don't really think he was my 'type'. I'm taking a break and don't think I will date for awhile. You learn from your mistakes. (And I'm not saying this in a rude way)
I actually have a crush however I think I'll move on anyways. Besides I don't want anyone nor need anyone in my life. I can wait.

[Whitepaw Niniichi/Enigir Shosa]

You guys sure are saying a lot...
So then...how much introspection and self-figuring-out vs. how much just letting life happen do you guys think is required for making/letting love happen? I mean it's all very well and good to know what you want but it's also pretty dependant on whoever crops up in one's life too, correct?

[Nutmeg]

I've never been in a relationship before. To be honest, all I'd really want from one at the moment is someone to talk to and cuddle with. I think the best way to get into one would be to hang out with people to have the same interests as you, eventually you're bound to meet someone who you like, and vice versa 

[PossumDeMort]

Indeed, y wife and i were brought  together  by video games and a small tv

[Proto Triose]

The last person I was with left me after five years. Right when my store closed down, actually. In a midlife "sick of all this," I wrote my book. She left me because "I'm content, and that's not good." So if that wasn't just the winning breakup line. I'm leaving you because I'm happy. Never thought I'd hear that one. O.o


I'm doing extremely well for myself now, though. If anything, it pushed me to chase my dreams and do everything I can to make them a reality. I'm sure, one day, I'll find that special someone that I can (as Nutmeg said) sit and cuddle with over a movie.


Or, who am I kidding, over the ninetieth watching of Scribs.


I choose to believe there's someone out there for everyone, even if you never find them. If I don't ... what kind of a depressing world would that be?

[HyenaKing]

I've never been in a relationship before. To be honest, all I'd really want from one at the moment is someone to talk to and cuddle with. I think the best way to get into one would be to hang out with people to have the same interests as you, eventually you're bound to meet someone who you like, and vice versa 

As long as you find the right, laid back person for that, I think that you have the right point of view.

[Clare Silvermist]

I'm currently in an open relationship, and while others may think it's easier being in one, it isn't. Sure it means I Can give myself to more than just one person, as I am polyamorous and capable of loving more than just one person, but it does mean giving my time and love equally to each partner. Currently though, all my partners are male and all but one are interstate or over seas...So...a girlfriend would be very welcome into the mix..

A relationship,whether it is a love relationship, friendship, or family relationship requires lots of hard work and effort, especially with a love relationship, you need to have the utmost trust, honesty and respect. Without one you can't have the other two, and without them there is no love, no love means no relationship. You may as well just be friends with benefits, which is something I personally do not like or abide by.

[saph the sergal]

im fresh out of one (not looking so dont ask please) it was messy of a sorts

he didnt like that im all the way in queensland and didnt want to move also didnt like that i want to travel aus by myself

i ended up ending it as the relentless move and i dont know what im doing on the road got to be to much for me and i couldnt take it

[Clare Silvermist]

im fresh out of one (not looking so dont ask please) it was messy of a sorts

he didnt like that im all the way in queensland and didnt want to move also didnt like that i want to travel aus by myself

i ended up ending it as the relentless move and i dont know what im doing on the road got to be to much for me and i couldnt take it

Ouch, I've had partners like that before hun, sorry to hear you've had to go through all of that. my wife of 3 years left me after our fights got to the point where it was physical, but it was also the fact I found out she was cheating on me while she wasn't allowing me to do romance rps.

[saph the sergal]

im fresh out of one (not looking so dont ask please) it was messy of a sorts

he didnt like that im all the way in queensland and didnt want to move also didnt like that i want to travel aus by myself

i ended up ending it as the relentless move and i dont know what im doing on the road got to be to much for me and i couldnt take it

Ouch, I've had partners like that before hun, sorry to hear you've had to go through all of that. my wife of 3 years left me after our fights got to the point where it was physical, but it was also the fact I found out she was cheating on me while she wasn't allowing me to do romance rps.

eh was bound to happen anyways

he kept trying to make me move and not let me follow what i want

thats
trains
my passion for swiming (gonna be a scuba diver soon  )
photography
and ofcourse
the place i live aus and wanting to trip and get out there

[Rob_Silvermyst]

Ouch, I've had partners like that before hun, sorry to hear you've had to go through all of that. my wife of 3 years left me after our fights got to the point where it was physical, but it was also the fact I found out she was cheating on me while she wasn't allowing me to do romance rps.

Ouch. It's bad enough to get into arguments, but when things get physically violent, that's just too far. And not letting you roleplay? She sounds like quite the controlling person. Good to see you got out of that mess.


As for me, still doing my searching for a mate to spend my life with and have a child or two with. Someone who enjoys going to renaissance fairs, enjoys video games, and of course, snuggling. Hard to find anyone local to me, not many single furs out in Connecticut. Might have to move out if I can find someone in the US.

[Bricket]

I am currently single,didn't ask for it but I became it.
Sure people say to get over her, but it still stings like hell.

But I guess that is the part of the game of life, sometimes you win and sometimes you lose