Relationships?

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I'd rather not say say for the sake of privacy.

Must be the Illuminati.

You know it is, Hollow. 

[Uruvion]

I'm married. I've been married for a bit over 3 months. She's not a furry, or a gamer like I am, but she's very special to me. We met over facebook when I was going through a divorce of my first wife of 12 years. I drove out to meet her, and we just clicked. We've been inseparable since.

[Cecilia Peromi]

That's a lovely story. I hope it works out for me like that. But it's just too early to tell.

[Yuffie]

That is really cute!

[Goblin Cat 😸]

Chiming in as someone who also has been in an online relationship, they can really work out. Though if you're a minor, please be careful with dropping things to move in with an S.O. especially if they are older and you would find yourself dependent on them, financially speaking. That's a dangerous road to walk if it's not with the right person.

Anyway, I met my two losers via a Bioshock roleplay on tumblr. I was roleplaying Sander Cohen. We talked for a long time over skype, at least once per day, texted when we weren't at the computer, and did package exchanges whenever there was an upcoming holiday. Visits were few and far between but after I met up with the both of them to help a mutual friend move, we planned/continued talking about the possibility of moving in together, and now I live with the both of them. So yes, things can work out. It just takes patience and the ability to work with one another.

[Dexter Dare]

Single and not sure if im loving it or not 

[Ræfóa Aldrnari]

Kinda feel the same way, Dex. It definitely has it's ups and downs

[Dexter Dare]

yeah on one hand i hate being around people all the time but on the other hand its nice to always have someone to do stuff with 

[Rob_Silvermyst]

I have not had the best of luck with relationships. Those I find myself interested in either end up getting snatched up by someone else, or they find me too weird because of my faith and my interest in the furry fandom. And some have just used me, one to get back at an ex, another to try and mooch off of me while cheating on me behind my back. These relationships are what drove me to become reclusive, but I am hopeful I might find someone who will genuinely love me and accept me for who I am. The older I get though, the less likely it feels like that will happen.

[Drakeyboy]

I am in the same boat as you Rob. I tried on three separate occasions and two of them were taken and they never told meup (to be honest I think they were cheating on someone for me), and the last one was snatched up actually was a lesbian. makes me nervous about trying to find a girlfriend.

[HyenaKing]

Confidence is key.

[Ohranev]

I'm in a lesbian relationship now since August of 2013. I don't really know what to talk about with this, it's a weird thing. It's been very bumpy at times due to physical limitations, but I am trying to be more open about it. I guess I have to say that I like keeping my relationship between me and the person I am with as much as possible. No one in my family nor my friends in real life know about it.


What is it like? When it's all going good, amazing. I feel really happy, even though some other things usually bring me down at the same time. I like being with them, it makes me feel safe, I need someone to hug, kiss, open up and expose myself to. I would say the biggest part of a relationship is trust, in yourself, and in the significant other. To open your heart to a row of knives and a row of blankets, it's nice to get the row of blankets from someone. It's nice to show them you. No matter how broken you feel. For them to take that and to make you feel secure and safe, and to do the same for them.


Now for how you get into one.. I don't know. My first real "relationship" started off as a rather weird crush. It ended pretty badly. The second one resulted from me being raped and seeking protection, the protector had become my boyfriend later. And this one, current one, resulted as I left the last one in anger and sadness, finding happiness and love in someone else after we got to talking a lot.


I really don't know how you get to find "the one". For me it's just been a lot of talking. Getting closer and closer and eventually making the step to tell them you'd like to share more of your world with them, and hope they want to do the same. It's not quite an escalated relationship at this point, it's close, though. Then you spend a few days or weeks like that, and then you can say "I love you" without feeling awkward. And they will say "I love you, too".

[HollowOfHaze]

Ltar, I am sorry for how rough your past has been. You show be proud of having gotten this far, and I am happy for your ability to carry on. Congratulations on your current relationship. I hope it lasts forever.

[Ohranev]

Thank you, I hope so, too.
One step at a time.

[Styxx Von Doom]

Well both me and my s/o are in an open non romantic relationship. Its open as we can be with others, yet we choose not to mostly. (hard to explain but think of it as friends who are intimate. Also we both have the same female we go to.) I know it may not make sence but we are human and need that human touch I gues...